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I am also one of 3 women that I know that DOESN'T have HPV. Two that I know have gotten cancer from it. The rest struggle constantly with it.

 

I was diagnosed with HPV.. for the last 2 years my tests have been negative...

 

http://www.thehpvtest.com/30plus/HPV_Facts/keypoints_HPV_virus.html

http://www.thehpvtest.com/under30/HPV_Facts/keypoints_HPV_virus.html

 

I was only involved with 2 men in a 17 year period.. both relationships were long term..

The doctor told me I picked up HPV from one of my partners (one of the two).. I don't know which one. I was told after exposure to the virus it could take up to 3-4 years for a pap test to detect it..

 

It is not a virus with noticable symptoms.. You don't even know you have it unless it shows up on a pap test and as for MEN... THERE IS NO TEST THEY CAN TAKE TO FIND OUT IF THEY HAVE BEEN EXPOSED....... they carry the virus and pass it on.... You can never know if he has the virus.

 

I live with fear of cervical cancer now.. Even thought my tests as of 2 years have been negative they were once possitive I pray my immune system has totally rid my body of it and it doesn't come back..

 

So you fools that are out there.. How would you feel if you met the man/woman of your dreams and you infected her, she developed cervical cancer had to have surgery, chemo, etc etc and she still died. Would you just love yourself for killing your spouse....

 

So many selfish people when it comes to there own personal self gratification... If your life was in the balance and you didn't know what will happen you would feel like I do.

 

Use a friggin condom until you are tested.... I have been tested after every partner I have had before getting involved with a new sexual partner. I have always presented my test results to the guy I may have sex with so He can have ease of mind... I wish I could get that same respect from the man!!!

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The chances of dying from and STD are almost zero and the chances of getting AIDS are almost zero if you are not gay or an IV drug user. We don't live in the middle ages anymore when people died from gonorrhea and syphillis. There are drugs and treatments for almost everything connected to STDs.

 

 

I take it that's your justification for sleeping around and engaging in risky behaviour, huh? The hell with the fact that you use and discard these women like garbage... you bring in this *beep* about how "the chances of getting AIDS are almost zero if you are not gay or an IV drug user." Amazing. :D

 

Are you a health official? From where did you come up with that tidbit, Alpha?

 

Here's a stat from a city near where I live: Washington, DC.

 

One out of twenty DC residents has HIV.

 

So... you wanna come down here and get your yang wet with some of these oh so hot and luscious *professional* DC chicks? Huh? We've got plenty of them! You wanna play Russian roulette? :D

 

It wouldn't surprise me if you took up the offer. Not in the least.

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Use a friggin condom until you are tested.... I have been tested after every partner I have had before getting involved with a new sexual partner. I have always presented my test results to the guy I may have sex with so He can have ease of mind... I wish I could get that same respect from the man!!!

Yeah well u know what PADA???? You give me a word processor and a good quality color printer and I can produce a report or test results that would show you I am clean as a whistle (which i am) even if I had multiple STDs. So you must call the clinic's 800 # to confirm, I suppose?

 

I had two or three chicks want me to produce clean test result before they would f*** me and I told them all to get lost... i don't need sex that badly.

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Are you a health official? From where did you come up with that tidbit, Alpha?

 

Here's a stat from a city near where I live: Washington, DC.

An estimated 40,000 U.S. residents get AIDS every year. Lets say there are 200,000,000 adults in the U.S. Lets do the math. That comes to a 0.02% chance of acquiring AIDS in any one year.

 

Oh yeah, and if you don't have sex with gay people or IV drug users then your chances are probably one one-hundreth of the 0.02%.

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i don't need sex that badly.

 

 

Somebody's nose is getting longer... :p

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An estimated 40,000 U.S. residents get AIDS every year. Lets say there are 200,000,000 adults in the U.S. Lets do the math. That comes to a 0.02% chance of acquiring AIDS in any one year.

 

Oh yeah, and if you don't have sex with gay people or IV drug users then your chances are probably one one-hundreth of the 0.02%.

 

 

You're missing the point.

 

Why didn't you want to give those women (the ones you told to "get lost") your test results? Why would you be bugged by that?

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Why didn't you want to give those women (the ones you told to "get lost") your test results? Why would you be bugged by that?

because if they don't trust me when I say "i'm clean" then they are not worth having around. i'm not gonna produce any piece of paper or a certificate or whatnot.

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because if they don't trust me when I say "i'm clean" then they are not worth having around. i'm not gonna produce any piece of paper or a certificate or whatnot.

 

 

Well, Alpha, there is such a thing as people lying. Happens all the time. Ever hear of women *saying* that they are on the pill and then they somehow end up pregnant? :eek:

 

Kudos to those women for being smart though and heeding your advice. :p

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because if they don't trust me when I say "i'm clean" then they are not worth having around. i'm not gonna produce any piece of paper or a certificate or whatnot.

 

Alpha.. I don't get this one either..

 

I have been tested at least 20 times in the last 10 years either for life insurance or just because or becuase they asked me to get tested..

I don't see why showing someone the results is a trust issue..

 

Hell.. I'd staple the M-f'er to the headboard so she could read it while I was banging her..

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Oh yeah, and if you don't have sex with gay people or IV drug users then your chances are probably one one-hundreth of the 0.02%.

 

What about blood transfusions?

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Hell.. I'd staple the M-f'er to the headboard so she could read it while I was banging her..

 

 

Yeah, that would probably work if you had her on her stomach and you were banging her in the ass... how sweet. :)

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Read that story about the CFL player. He passed on HIV to many women and is now being charged with criminal manslaughter. HE did not tell anybody he slept with that he was HIV Positive.

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because if they don't trust me when I say "i'm clean" then they are not worth having around. i'm not gonna produce any piece of paper or a certificate or whatnot.

 

I was with my exh for 11 1/2 years and the man after him I had been friends with for 7 years and we were together for 4 1/2. I thought I could trust them.. I knew them for years... I still got HPV....

 

Also, No I don't call a 800# I actually have a regular OBGYN and He calls me plus sends me a letter with my results for a Complete STD panel.......

 

You are playing russian roulette Alpha.. It saddens me..

If you lower that pride a little bit you will still be a Alpha Male and you can be safe at the same time...

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...russian roulette...

 

 

Hey. Hey! HEY! Quit stealing *my* phrases! :p

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Read that story about the CFL player. He passed on HIV to many women and is now being charged with criminal manslaughter. HE did not tell anybody he slept with that he was HIV Positive.

Oh yeah, I heard about that in the news today. How F@cked up do you have to be to do something so unethical? It made me sick when I heard that.

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Alpha.. I don't get this one either..

 

I have been tested at least 20 times in the last 10 years either for life insurance or just because or becuase they asked me to get tested..

I don't see why showing someone the results is a trust issue..

So if a woman tells me she's on the pill should I ask for documentation and proof that she is? Or if she tells me she slept with only 10 men in the past should I hire a private eye to make sure the number is not 100??? Should I ask my Doctor for evidence that he is really a doctor?

 

I don't have the time or patience for that krap....life is short enuf already.

 

What about blood transfusions?

The entire bloood supply is checked for AIDS virus, its not an issue anymore.

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Hey. Hey! HEY! Quit stealing *my* phrases! :p

 

i love your phrases... they work perfectly.. there is no other word to use..

thanks for allowing me to steal it and not borrow it... :bunny::lmao::p

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i love your phrases... they work perfectly.. there is no other word to use..

thanks for allowing me to steal it and not borrow it... :bunny::lmao::p

 

 

:lmao: :lmao: :lmao:

 

You're very welcome. I'll be expecting a check. :p

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I don't have the time or patience for that krap....life is short enuf already.

 

 

Yeah, so many women, so little time, huh?

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:lmao: :lmao: :lmao:

 

You're very welcome. I'll be expecting a check. :p

 

sorry baby,, royalties go to the inventor.. not the users...

 

muahhh!!!!!!!:bunny:

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sorry baby,, royalties go to the inventor.. not the users...

 

muahhh!!!!!!!:bunny:

 

 

But I AM the inventor!!! :p

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But I AM the inventor!!! :p

inventor of what?? being a SmoochieFace?? {giggles}

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inventor of what?? being a SmoochieFace?? {giggles}

 

Actually, I didn't come up with the S.F. moniker. Thank my GF for that one. :bunny:

 

When I first heard her call me that, I thought it was one of the craziest things I ever heard. I certainly wasn't about to argue with her over it though. :p

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The entire bloood supply is checked for AIDS virus, its not an issue anymore.

 

Mistakes are still made at times ya know...And who knows if the person had the transfusion 2 years ago or 20 years ago! Get my drift.

 

Alpha we just dont' wanna see you get sick.

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Mistakes are still made at times ya know...And who knows if the person had the transfusion 2 years ago or 20 years ago! Get my drift.

 

Alpha we just dont' wanna see you get sick.

 

If he is anything like the man I use to have in my life. He wont ever submitt to anything that will make him even the slightest bit wussy..

 

Invincible, tough man, why do you think he calls himself AlphaMale...

 

He will get sick oneday and not tell anyone because then he would have to face and eat his arrogancy..

 

I pray his irresponsibility doesnt bite him in the a$$ day...

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