Don't know what to do :\

[underdog]

OK, first of all: hi everyone

I'll try to make this long story short...it goes like this:

I met this girl online and we realized we both knew each other from years ago, when we were in the same class, like in the 5th or 6th grade(i'm on college now).

So we set up a date and it was a really affectuous date, although there was no kissing involved. Then we set up another date, and in the end of that date we had a 'passionate' kiss (at least i think it was).

I thought i had it all figured out, but then she got scared or something, and said she wanted us to be really good friends first, and if something happened or not from there, then fine.

We mostly talk on the internet and we've been talking less and less, but we still talk everyday...now she doesn't seem to want to go out with me anymore, but she always comes and says hi on the internet and makes the talk...She told a close friend of hers that she's not sure about what she wants from this relationship, and when she talks about me she says things in a sweet (but not in love ) way.

Her friend recommended me to stay away for a while so she could miss me and stuff, but I really don't know what to do...and turning off when she comes talking to me it's hard..but i really love this girl and want to get her really bad

I believe she thinks she's got me in her hand, because i already told her I like her a lot...i don't want to become best friends of her because I know that would ruin every chance, and her friend told me that she had gone through the same situation with some guy, and he insisted so much they became best friends... thanks

[SmoochieFace]

Are you really sure that you *love* her or are you just infatuated with her?

 

It appears that you are going way too fast with way too many expectations. Slow down. Get to know her more and don't be so serious.

[underdog]

well i'm mos def sure i love her, and we've been talking for everyday, getting to know each other for at least a month and a half...i think i'm not rushing into something, and if too much time goes by we won't become anything more than friends...