jangle04 Posted November 1, 2005 Posted November 1, 2005 It may not be time to be involved with someone but she grew on me. I've been separated a year now and have been seeing this girl about 7 months now. The thing is she treated me like a king in the beginning and I was somewhat resistant. Over the past few months the intimacy slowed down and has pretty much stopped over the last month. She was seeing someone before me and they split up and he is with some other girl he just recently had a child with. The thing is he still comes around and they drink beer together or whatever at her house at night alone and they talk on the phone. If I say anything about it she turns it around on me and blames it on what happened with my ex-wife cheating on me. She says he's just a friend so I try not to say anything. A lot of the same signs seem to be there I had with my ex though but she says she isn't my ex. It just hasn't been working out and I just wonder if I'm being played again or being paranoid! Should I tolerate this or am I wrong?
Sloppy Posted November 1, 2005 Posted November 1, 2005 You are seeing what you are seeing. Trust your feelings this time. If there is nothing going on, ask her to introduce that guy to you; you all go out and have a beer. Based on her reaction you will know more...
downcydeguy Posted November 1, 2005 Posted November 1, 2005 Don't buy it man. If she wants to be hangin' out with her ex, she still has feelings for him. And since they are mixing alcohol with being alone - on top of their past...bad news for you. It probably already happened/is happening. Time to give her the ultimatum unfortunately. She can't have her cake and eat it too.
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