vickiec Posted October 31, 2005 Posted October 31, 2005 Well im new to this site and ive read some of the threads on here and people seem to really help each other out so thought id ask for a bit of advice. In May my boyfriend of 4 and a half years broke my heart when he told me he didnt love me anymore and the last few months have been really hard for me. Me and my ex have the same friends and worked in the same place so i found myself a new job and in the last month ive been feeling alot better about myself. Ive started to enjoy being single and have been having fun. Anyway this guy asked me if i want to go out for a drink this week and i said yes! this is the first date (that's not a rebound date!) that i will have been on since my ex and im really nervous about it so id appreciate any advice anyone can give me!!??
basscatcher Posted October 31, 2005 Posted October 31, 2005 Just be yourself. Look at it is an experience and getting to know another person. If more develop's then great if not then you have another acquaintence.. You will know when you are ready to move on into another serious relationship. Look at this as fun, getting to know yourself again, and experience. I like to watch and study the guy and see how he acts, what he tries to do to impress me, I like to see if I can figure out if he is really into me or just figure out whatever. I used each experience I had dating for the last 9 months as fun, and experience. I had a few wake up calls in the process. I learned a lot about myself and what goes and doesnt go in the dating world.. I have also learn a bit about picking out a guy who could be potential playtoy vs the real deal.. Just enjoy.. Use logic and a open mind.
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