Mz. Pixie Posted October 31, 2005 Posted October 31, 2005 It's because you're a Scorpio, Pad- we're very sensual and loved to be touched. Lucky for me, my husband is a Scorpio too! Look that up on the horoscopes and see what that makes when two Scorpios hook up. Scary! It's either the BEST or worst relationship you'll ever have! My now husband took me shopping on Mother's Day last year and made me try on a bunch of stuff. He took me to a upscale store that I'd never bought a thing at, had all the sales ladies at my beck and call. He spent more on one outfit than I've ever spent on five! Then he took me and bought me matching shoes! He loves to shop! Great sex and loves to shop- can't get much better than that!
Author basscatcher Posted October 31, 2005 Author Posted October 31, 2005 It's because you're a Scorpio, Pad- we're very sensual and loved to be touched. Lucky for me, my husband is a Scorpio too! Look that up on the horoscopes and see what that makes when two Scorpios hook up. Scary! It's either the BEST or worst relationship you'll ever have! My now husband took me shopping on Mother's Day last year and made me try on a bunch of stuff. He took me to a upscale store that I'd never bought a thing at, had all the sales ladies at my beck and call. He spent more on one outfit than I've ever spent on five! Then he took me and bought me matching shoes! He loves to shop! Great sex and loves to shop- can't get much better than that! Yep he is a Scorpio too. His bday is the 10th.. He loves to shop whereas I really don't. We have the same tastes in things. I love his apartment its very much like what I would do. He is a outdoorsy/country boy kind of guy who was raised on the edge of the city. He likes to be touched and touch also. He said in his last two relationships he didnt get much of that.. Sex is great also.. I've never been with a guy who can hold himself at attention for almost 2 solid hours. damn I was exhausted.
Lishy Posted November 1, 2005 Posted November 1, 2005 Great in you Pad!!!!!!! Shows it can really happen! I wish you all the best, you are not a silly girl .... enjoy!!!!!!!!
Angelina1433 Posted November 1, 2005 Posted November 1, 2005 Padameckla Happy birthday (eve) to us!!!!!!!!!! My birthday is the same as yours - on All Saints Day. Why do you think my name is Angelina? Scorpios rule. Have a great day tomorrow! And I'm happy for you and your new love situation. Good luck with that! Angel~
quankanne Posted November 1, 2005 Posted November 1, 2005 I hope I'm not walking like I road a horse all day rounding up buffalo. honey, I hope you ARE ~ what better way to wear yourself out than a night full of good loving? :D he sounds like a really rare find, pada; nice friends and family, and great kids ~ those are the best indicators of what a person is like, IMHO. They can't fake what they feel or think about him, so if they're treating him with love and respect, you know he's gotta be a good guy. enjoy your romance and don't listen to grumpy little guys who act the role of dooomsayer. It's your nickel and your ride, not theirs. am going to add my early happy birthday wishes here, too. Pretty neat being born on All Saints – my girlfriend (also from Minnesota) share's your birthday!
Mz. Pixie Posted November 1, 2005 Posted November 1, 2005 Pad- Uh, oh. You're both Scorpios??? Then, you ARE experiencing everything that I experienced when I first met my husband. Goosebumps- the feeling that you've met the other piece of your puzzle?? When we are in the kitchen together cooking or something- we even move like we're one person. It's soooo wierd. You're in for some great loving and fun times!!! I'm thrilled for you!
Author basscatcher Posted November 1, 2005 Author Posted November 1, 2005 I hope I'm not walking like I road a horse all day rounding up buffalo. honey, I hope you ARE ~ what better way to wear yourself out than a night full of good loving? :D he sounds like a really rare find, pada; nice friends and family, and great kids ~ those are the best indicators of what a person is like, IMHO. They can't fake what they feel or think about him, so if they're treating him with love and respect, you know he's gotta be a good guy. enjoy your romance and don't listen to grumpy little guys who act the role of dooomsayer. It's your nickel and your ride, not theirs. am going to add my early happy birthday wishes here, too. Pretty neat being born on All Saints – my girlfriend (also from Minnesota) share's your birthday! Thank you quank.,, I am still exhausted.. My body feels like its been through a old fashioned ringer washer. :lmao: I have a chiro appt tomorrow.!!! Mr. Landscaper is taking me out for supper tonight. He won't make any decisions on it. He said I HAVE TO PICK OUT WHERE I WANT TO GO. He told me I have to take charge.. lolol.. So I said Bennigans... I have been wanting potato soup for a few days now so I think its time to fix that craving..!! His bday is the 10th and he said he knows where he is going!! He wont tell me, He said I will have to wait and see.. He said he likes to keep a little mystery to keep me interested... He told me to invite my son with us for supper. He ORDERED me to.. We talked on the phone last night till 12:30am then he called me at 8:30 am to wish me a happy birthday.. He is the greatest.. I do believe I have met a wonderful man... who says dating services are scams? Together Dating did a great job of matching me with Mr. Landscaper.. He is wonderful. Dinner tonight, then MINNESOTA WILDS HOCKEY. Yeahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh.... I took Friday off of work.. Gf is coming down from Fargo, ND-All my friends, Mr. Landscaper and I are going to the club.. Wooooooooooooooooooo It's going to be a fun night and a rough weekend with a hangover.
Hot Coco Posted November 1, 2005 Posted November 1, 2005 Forget Alpha! He's a man, what does he know about these things? Anyway, don't know if you remember me but on your other thread I was saying this sounds like the "real deal." No games, no drama. It's easy. People, THIS is the way it's SUPPOSED to be! Remember I said all that? Well, it's true. This is exactly how it started with H and I. We've been together 11 years, married for 10. He proposed after 4 weeks so watch out Pad! Funny, but we also waited 3 weeks before doing the DEED! That may not sound like much to Art and others but like you said, when you spend every day together and talk several hours on the phone, it really is. We knew each other pretty well by then. And boy, was it worth the wait!!! But I digress...Anyway, this is so exciting! I feel like I'm reliving those days through you now. Youve got to keep us updated. I better dinner will be great tonight. Oh, and HAPPY BIRTHDAY!
SmoochieFace Posted November 1, 2005 Posted November 1, 2005 Forget Alpha! He's a man, what does he know about these things? Uh... Smoochie Face is a man too and he personally finds the *playuh* type to be completely repulsive. Not all men possess the mindset of Alpha.
Hot Coco Posted November 1, 2005 Posted November 1, 2005 Uh... Smoochie Face is a man too and he personally finds the *playuh* type to be completely repulsive. Not all men possess the mindset of Alpha. Believe me I know Smoochie! I was only joking. I didn't marry a man with Alpha's mindset so I know that not all men are like that. (In fact I didn't DATE them either. I smelled them a mile away and RAN like the wind!)Certainly sounds like Mr. Landscaper is not one of them either.
Author basscatcher Posted November 1, 2005 Author Posted November 1, 2005 Forget Alpha! He's a man, what does he know about these things? Alpha doesn't bother me. I feel for him because he is lost. He is a interesting character in LS and without him our brains and tempers wouldn't get stimulated. I typically can understand his pionts and what he attempts to try to relay to all of us about his opinions and ideas. He means well generally. Anyway, don't know if you remember me but on your other thread I was saying this sounds like the "real deal." No games, no drama. It's easy. People, THIS is the way it's SUPPOSED to be! Remember I said all that? Well, it's true. This is exactly how it started with H and I. We've been together 11 years, married for 10. He proposed after 4 weeks so watch out Pad! I remember you and your role in my posts. I've been in LS long enough to feel out who is a regular and family.. Thats kinda how I feel about LS now, It's like a family with all the different dynamics of personalities, opinions, ideas, and interests. I don't think Mr. Landscaper will propose to soon. He has only been divorced for 4 years and was married for 13. I've been divorced for 8 years last month. He's only about 2 months out of his last relationship so he is still wet behind the ears and in transition. Funny, but we also waited 3 weeks before doing the DEED! That may not sound like much to Art and others but like you said, when you spend every day together and talk several hours on the phone, it really is. We knew each other pretty well by then. And boy, was it worth the wait!!! It was 3 weeks and one day we waited--it happened in his truck!!! Neither of us could resist any longer Good thing its a big truck with lots of room..Dodge w/hemi. He got it good-3 times in 3 days. He said he was lucky if he got it 3 times in a month with the last gf. I told him he won't know what hit him then with me. He better get use to it. ahahahahh:lmao: Definetly worth the wait. This relationship is not built on Sex and hormones it was built on getting to know one another and the hormones just took their place in it all. ahaha:lmao: But I digress...Anyway, this is so exciting! I feel like I'm reliving those days through you now. Youve got to keep us updated. I better dinner will be great tonight. Oh, and HAPPY BIRTHDAY! It's nice to relive our happy times through someone else. To be reminded of our love and lives gives a renewal to our own present moment. I bet you are feeling more affectionate towards your honey because of the memories being so freshly renewed in your mind now.. :bunny:
SmoochieFace Posted November 1, 2005 Posted November 1, 2005 Believe me I know Smoochie! I was only joking. I didn't marry a man with Alpha's mindset so I know that not all men are like that. (In fact I didn't DATE them either. I smelled them a mile away and RAN like the wind!)Certainly sounds like Mr. Landscaper is not one of them either. Well, then you are one of the smart ones. Unfortunately, there are still many women who need to be educated in that regard.
alphamale Posted November 1, 2005 Posted November 1, 2005 Quit being green, Alpha. I'm not being green S.F., I'm being realistic Uh... Smoochie Face is a man too and he personally finds the *playuh* type to be completely repulsive. Not all men possess the mindset of Alpha. Ahh...let me remind you S.F. that most men would be a player if they could but it is only the honest ones that actually admit it. It's the "nice guys" who deny their own sexuality...
SmoochieFace Posted November 1, 2005 Posted November 1, 2005 I'm not being green S.F., I'm being realistic Ahh...let me remind you S.F. that most men would be a player if they could but it is only the honest ones that actually admit it. It's the "nice guys" who deny their own sexuality... You're being *realistic* according to YOUR way of thinking and YOUR experiences. There are other *realities* besides yours. The second part... that may be true for MOST men but not ALL men. And I am not a *nice guy* in the sense of being a doormat. I consider myself a *decent guy* who isn't inclined to bang numerous women for the purpose of having a belt full of notches. I am a very sexual person who clearly isn't in any sort of denial over it. I just prefer to concentrate on the one woman I love.
Hot Coco Posted November 1, 2005 Posted November 1, 2005 Well, then you are one of the smart ones. Unfortunately, there are still many women who need to be educated in that regard. Thanks, Smoochie. My theory on that is that those women know nothing else. They don't want to know anything else and they don't want to be confused with the facts. Hey, their loss. Somebody's gotta put up with those types of guys...might as well be those kinds of women. Save the good ones for the rest of us...those who realize that there ARE good ones! And to respond to Pad. I agree, Alpha is fine. It would be boring to only have one kind of man responding. Makes it interesting and I've enjoyed many of his posts myself. I just wouldn't date him! Pad, my guy had been separated for one year and divorced for one year when he proposed. Four years is a long time for a man. I think the average time a man remarries is 2 years. Might want to look that up I'm not sure but seems I read that somewhere. Men don't wait as long as women to remarry. But it doesn't matter as long as you're enjoying each other. oh and Alpha, my H could have been a player if he wanted too. He's very good looking, educated, succesful...the whole package. He was never interested in quantity though. Only quality. Yes, he's a nice guy but he NEVER denied his sexuality. He's extremely sexual. There goes THAT theory. And he's not the only man I've met who's that way. Like I said, I didn't date players. I've met them though. I learned to recognize the signs. Usually there are other traits that go along with that mentality and they're not traits that I'm interested in seeing in a man. (Like arrogance, selfishness, shallowness, etc.) Not my cup o' tea.
alphamale Posted November 1, 2005 Posted November 1, 2005 I am a very sexual person who clearly isn't in any sort of denial over it. I just prefer to concentrate on the one woman I love. OK, S.F. ...... but what will you do when that one woman you love lies to you and decieves you and then castrates you and runs off with some rich dude? Then you'll come running to Alpha crying your eyes out....oh, boo hoo hoo - my woman wronged me and blah blah balah...
SmoochieFace Posted November 1, 2005 Posted November 1, 2005 OK, S.F. ...... but what will you do when that one woman you love lies to you and decieves you and then castrates you and runs off with some rich dude? Then you'll come running to Alpha crying your eyes out....oh, boo hoo hoo - my woman wronged me and blah blah balah... I seriously doubt that will happen... I know, you're gonna say "oh, how naive!"... but I am very intuitive and I can easily spot the *bad* ones out there. Remember that not ALL women are lying castrating gold-diggers, Alpha. There ARE *decent* women out there and I am happily involved with one. And even if that happened, I wouldn't come running to anyone. I would simply move on without looking back.
Hot Coco Posted November 1, 2005 Posted November 1, 2005 I seriously doubt that will happen... I know, you're gonna say "oh, how naive!"... but I am very intuitive and I can easily spot the *bad* ones out there. Remember that not ALL women are lying castrating gold-diggers, Alpha. There ARE *decent* women out there and I am happily involved with one. And even if that happened, I wouldn't come running to anyone. I would simply move on without looking back. Yes, and besides that the ones who lie, deceive and castrate you are the same type of women who are attracted to the "playas." The good women will generally RUN from those types of guys. So, in general, the "playas" end up with the bad women and the "nice" guys end up with women who don't "castrate" their men. Most good women are going to recognize the playas and run...so Alpha, until you change your attitude you won't see many (if any) of those women. You'll see the women who have "issues" and prefer the bad boys.
alphamale Posted November 1, 2005 Posted November 1, 2005 Most good women are going to recognize the playas and run...so Alpha, until you change your attitude you won't see many (if any) of those women. You'll see the women who have "issues" and prefer the bad boys. Everyone has "issues" HOT COCOA..... and in addition, you failed to point out that many of your so-called "good women" are average or below in the looks department.
Hot Coco Posted November 1, 2005 Posted November 1, 2005 Oh, and one more thing. Most of the guys I've seen who are like you tend to think of the other guys as wimps. True some of them are, but many are not. Mine is as stubborn as they come! He will stand his ground and call me on things. It's just that those kinds of men don't have to prove anything to themselves or to others. They're confident in themselves as men. The "playas" are the ones who have to constantly prove to themselves and others what real "men" they are. They just don't have any concept of what being a REAL man is. My H along with others like him (Mr. Landscaper, Smoochie, etc.) are the REAL men! As for the other guys? Cheap they're nothing but cheap imitations of the real thing.
Hot Coco Posted November 1, 2005 Posted November 1, 2005 Everyone has "issues" HOT COCOA..... and in addition, you failed to point out that many of your so-called "good women" are average or below in the looks department. My mother was a model and so was I...not to sound arrogant, but I can pretty much get any guy I set my sights on...always have and still could - if I were single. And absolutely, we all have "issues" but I was referring to the ones you were talking about, the golddigging, cheating and lying ones. You're so wrong about the good ones being average or below in looks. It's really not true. Look harder and try a different approach. You'd be surprised.
SmoochieFace Posted November 1, 2005 Posted November 1, 2005 you failed to point out that many of your so-called "good women" are average or below in the looks department. Oh terrific... here we go... gotta bring *looks* into this. Well, here's my take on this *looks* thingy... a woman who's got tons of issues isn't *good-looking*, period. Kinda like a bad personality can make a Brad Pitt lookalike uglier than sin... except to those women with uh... *issues*! Same thing in reverse, of course.
SmoochieFace Posted November 1, 2005 Posted November 1, 2005 My H along with others like him (Mr. Landscaper, Smoochie, etc.) are the REAL men! OOOOO... I'm feeling the love! Seriously, HC is right on. Real men do not have to *prove* they're real... it comes out naturally because they are being themselves - NOT putting on a show for others.
Author basscatcher Posted November 1, 2005 Author Posted November 1, 2005 Yes, and besides that the ones who lie, deceive and castrate you are the same type of women who are attracted to the "playas." The good women will generally RUN from those types of guys. So, in general, the "playas" end up with the bad women and the "nice" guys end up with women who don't "castrate" their men. Most good women are going to recognize the playas and run...so Alpha, until you change your attitude you won't see many (if any) of those women. You'll see the women who have "issues" and prefer the bad boys. YEAH==Isn't that the truth HC... I've been fooled by the players before. I didn't recognize the game but once I caught on I distanced myself.. I'm sick of shyt. I'm sick of shytie men. I'm sick of men who think all women are alike, I'm sick of men who can't be true to themselves. I'm sick of men who don't deal with their issues. I'm sick of so much shyt in the dating world but I will not allow it to make me bitter and abuse men.. I know there are great guys out there.. Alpha you need to get a grip with your reality and get over the shyt in your past.. So what if you've been abused, taken advantage of, manipulated, used, lied too, etc etc etc.. Why do you think the next woman who comes along deserves the punishment that the other woman deserves?? NOT all women are alike!!! I think you need to get yourself back together before you can even begin to make judgements. From the posts I have read from you--you carry a lot of bitterness against women. You may love women but its a fine line between love and hate and you really jump back and forth on that fence but you can't seem to just sit on the fence and balance yourself out.. You slamm women about several things.. BUT if you take a good look in the mirror at yourself as a third person you may just see you are your worse enemy and you are worse then the women types you slam. I was once told that people who talk bad and smack about others really are attacking their own self. They project their own judgements about themselves at others who have the same quality.. Blame others instead of themselves.. Project the blame elsewhere instead of where it really belongs.. I believe Alpha has many many great qualities and attributes that would make him a great catch but he has to deal with his issues before he can ever be successful in finding that woman who will compliment him and his life.. He will always get bored with whoever he gets involved with because he is not content with himself. This is my opinion... And it IS subject to change upon more info gained.
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