cj_gal Posted October 31, 2005 Posted October 31, 2005 Ever been in a relationship where the guy talks about all the stuff they want to do with you in the future ...Everything is going great and something happens in his life to do a complete 180..yet he expects you to be there as a friend with benefits even though he tells you he doesn't see you as a wife..Tell me how does a guy know what you're like in a matter of weeks ..things are fine..and you finally have great sex...that isn't the problem..then they freak..And it seems like the final answer is"You're not my soulmate and I don't know if I'll ever find that person"..does anyone believe in the soulmate thing? I have an ex who I think is my soulmate and we are best of friends and can actually talk about our current relationships with each other and he says it's cool..The guy I just broke up with says it's because he loves me...words I'll never hear from him..but doesn't matter at this point. This is something that just fascinates me...It seems if you don't give into the guy they walk out on you and if you do..it seems to change the entire course of a relationship..So what do you do..What have some of you done in your quest for the perfect or not so perfect S/O..I'd love to hear some stories..
JohnJohn Posted October 31, 2005 Posted October 31, 2005 Interesting point. I am a guy who has had similar problems with women, so it's not a gender thing. I've come to terms with the fact that you just can't figure some things out. A person that really cares for you is there for you and doesn't freak out. I've looked at myself and figured there's a reason why I am attracting women like this. You'll drive yourself crazy sometimes trying to figure out what the other person is thinking so work on what you can control - your choices.
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