SadHatter Posted October 31, 2005 Posted October 31, 2005 Hi, Well...to cut a long story short, I went out with a girl for three years from the age of 19 to 22. I was three years older than her (yes, it was legal, I live in England!). We were really in love (or so I thought) and extremely close...and then suddenly after three years she dumps me for her boss at work who was 32! She was by now 19. Anyway, that was 1.5 years ago, I haven't seen her or spoken to her since then - if I did ever try to contact her after that, she would not answer the call or reply to texts. So anyway, last night I went out and got pretty drunk and I came home and was browsing the Internet (why I was doing this when I was drunk and didn't just go to bed I don't know!) and - to my amazement - I saw some photographs of her!! She looks soooooo different and REALLY good...her hair looks really nice...she just looked wow! I felt some really strange emotions and, being drunk, you guessed it - I rang her!! :S Soooooo stupid! She answered, I said Hi, and she basically told me to go away, she isn't interested, doesn't want to talk to me, why am I ringing her?? I said I just thought maybe we should talk, I mean, we were together three years and I am over the break up now so it's cool. Anyway she said she didnt care and hung up. I then texted her and said, "Look sorry, I was drunk, shouldn't have rung, just thought we could be friends again" even though after what she did to me I shouldn't ever give her the time of day again. She didn't reply to the text. Now I am feeling sooooooo stupid and ANGRY at myself...1.5 years of hard work and I've just flushed it down the toilet because she now thinks...Wow...a year and he STILL isnt over me. Why have I given her this satisfaction!! So stupid. Why did I do that?! And can anyone make me feel better lol
scobro Posted October 31, 2005 Posted October 31, 2005 she basically told me to go away, she isn't interested, doesn't want to talk to me, why am I ringing her?? Right there says everything you need to know. even though after what she did to me I shouldn't ever give her the time of day again. Then don't why be friends with someone that treated you so bad. 1.5 years of hard work and I've just flushed it down the toilet What hard work she dumped you and moved on. I am over the break up now You would not have called her if you were. Why have I given her this satisfaction!! So stupid. yes but who cares you will never hear from her again so what does it matter. Why did I do that?! And can anyone make me feel better lol Drunkeness + memories+ feeling alone =calling the ex and being stupid it happens to the best of us.Chalk it up for wont do that again.
JohnJohn Posted October 31, 2005 Posted October 31, 2005 Chalk it up as a learning experience and move on. Who cares what she thinks now. I must ask why you wanted to remain friends with her? Usually it's because you don't want to let go entirely and remaining friends is a way to avoid the heartache of never seeing that person again. Sometimes you just have to cut your losses and move on. Furthermore, she treated you poorly. Why retain friends like that? Surround yourself with good people that treat you in a positive way.
Art_Critic Posted October 31, 2005 Posted October 31, 2005 You learned.. anymore and you become a stalker..
vickiec Posted October 31, 2005 Posted October 31, 2005 we all do things like that - my ex broke up with me this year and even though ive moved on i have text him when ive been drunk and ive regretted it instantly! I think i did it cos i was lonely. Are you seeing anyone else now? Or do you think maybe your lonely and thats why you called her?
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