stjärna Posted October 31, 2005 Posted October 31, 2005 i've been posting this question in multiple forums . . . i need a guy's advice. would you pursue a girl friend (not "girlfriend") of one of your best buddies? now here's the catch . . . your friend is very flirty with her when you see them interact (though you know that he has steady girlfriend, you get the feeling there's more to their friendship than just being friends) what do you think?
zingzoo Posted October 31, 2005 Posted October 31, 2005 Why don't you simply flirt with her in front of your friend as well (he doesn't have a "claim" on her after all)? Then make an offhand remark to him as to how nice that girl is and observe his reaction. If he really is your best buddy, then he will give you an appropriate reply without getting upset. 'luck!
BrainRightHeartWrong Posted October 31, 2005 Posted October 31, 2005 absolutely never go there! i had two friends this happened to, these guys were best friends and now hate each other i could never fancy a friends girlfriend anyway, that is sick!
Lishy Posted October 31, 2005 Posted October 31, 2005 absolutely never go there! i had two friends this happened to, these guys were best friends and now hate each other i could never fancy a friends girlfriend anyway, that is sick! He is talking about his best mates friend who happens to be a girl - His friend has his own serious realtionship going on with another girl Is that as clear as mud? Go for it hon - there is nothing wrong with it ... BUT be aware .... when she is pissed with you she will go to him and you may fall out with your friend!! Is a girl worth that? Why dont you just ask him how he feels about it?????????
konfuzd Posted November 1, 2005 Posted November 1, 2005 I don't think there's anything wrong with you going out with her. In fact it may help your buddy's girlfriend, if you start dating this girl, your buddy may back off and focus on the girl he should be flirting with! Just be careful, if things go sour between you and this girl, it may put your friend in an awkward position, where he feels he needs to choose sides....
MadDog Posted November 1, 2005 Posted November 1, 2005 Your friend already has a girlfriend. Why would it matter whether you dated his friend who happens to be female? Another vote for the "go for it" column.
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