patwheel Posted October 30, 2005 Posted October 30, 2005 As I am learning how to cope with my recent break up (2 1/2 yrs, dumpee), and I am trying to get over this relationship as sanely as possible. NC, broke NC, regretting breaking NC, now full NC. I established in my head that she does not want to be with me anymore, fell outta love, and will probably find herself a new boyfriend soon enough. I know she is not right for me anymore, and I know she thinks the same. We are just going in different direction. Im also thinking that I miss the relationship part, cuddling, waking up seeing the other one, coming home and have someone, couple stuff. But this one is easier to cope with. The one that I cant stand right now and is keeping me awake is the she was so good to me, she was so nice to me, so beautiful and so smart. Will I ever meet anyone like her again? What if she was the one and I messed up? This may be me in denial of the end of the relationship, but on the other hand, I am really thinking that she was good to me, and I hate the idea that she could be like this now. Any advice?
scobro Posted October 30, 2005 Posted October 30, 2005 Will I ever meet anyone like her again? No....... you are screwed now you will never meet anyone again in your whole life, she was all that there was for you and now its over so there will be nobody else. Just kidding:p You will get over this just move on and focus on yourself more not just getting into another relationship.I too am 3 months separated and I miss the whole being part of a couple and stuff that goes with being married but now it's over and I have to work on being single again and learn to love myself before I even think of another relationship.I get lonely sometimes but it's natural to feel this way just work on yourself and become focused on you more and things in time will fall nicely into place for you.
JohnJohn Posted October 30, 2005 Posted October 30, 2005 I have to work on being single again and learn to love myself before I even think of another relationship. Couldn't have said it better myself. Hang in there and be strong.
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