Fingirl Posted October 30, 2005 Posted October 30, 2005 Hi guys, i met a great guy at a party last saturday (sunday today). He made a bee-line for me and hung out with me and my best friend all night-from the start of the party until the end, and not hanging out with his friends. He kept complimenting me, saying all the right things, saying "Is it just me, or is there something happening here between us". When I went to the bathroom, he told my friend that he was really into me. Things continued well all night, and he promised to hold me "forever". Anyway, at one point, I asked him 5 reasons why he wasn't the perfect guy for me (as a joke, as it was going sooo well), he paused, and then responded "1)i'm flighty 2) i don't want to get married again (he has been divorced for 6 years) 3) i don't want kids and 4) i'm moving to egypt". As you can imagine, i was blown away. He then said, he had an interview this past Friday for a job in Egypt, so he wasn't technically moving yet. Anyway, as the night progressed we discussed his big "issues" and it turned out, his attitude was "if it happens, it happens", not never. The rest of the evening carried on like the start, and he did not leave my side, kissing me, complimenting me. He asked me for my number at the end of the evening, and kissed me goodbye. Its now been 8 days, and I've heard nothing. Am I being naive here? What on earth is going on in his mind? should i be calling him (my friend got his number for me halfway through the evening when i was in the bathroom)... thanks guys
Lishy Posted October 30, 2005 Posted October 30, 2005 Well you have 2 choices ..... You leave it until he calls you or you call him! Personally I wouldnt advise you to call him, but others will tell you to bite the bullet and call with a friendly hello. Its your choice!!!!! Just remember that he has told you what he wants and that is to go to Egypt ..... You will be setting yourself up for heartache. The fact that he hasnt called is making it so much worse for you. I know exactky how you feel and it sucksssssssss ... You do what is right for you but take time to think before you make a decision hon! Good luck x
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