like me or not?

[Corey]

Im confused if this girl likes me or not. She started working at my gym about 2 months ago and after done lifting I sit down and talk to her. We can pretty much talk and keep it going. I already got the basics out of the way like if she has a bf etc. She doesnt and has broken up with him since april 2005 she says.Says she still talks to him.

 

Anyway After a while of talking to her I decided to ask her if she wanted to do something one weekend, about 2 weeks ago, her sister just got married so her relatives were over from PA ( I am in IL) and she said if they were still there she couldnt. SO that never happend. I asked again this week and again she was busy, halloween party on sat and going to her grandmas on sunday. Im sure shes busy cause she said this is a busy month for her. It just discourages me, I used to doing things when I ask.

 

I was also talking to her one time, I think last week, and just for kicks we were throwing words back and forth. Kinda harshness. For example she said I hope I break my foot so I cant come in and work out. And I said fine I dont have to come in and see you. Kept going from there until I was calling her ugly, skank etc, and she was calling me names back. Now this wasnt a fight, we were just messing around throwing words back and forth. Then she said dont talk to me. So I played the game and turned my chair around and didnt talk to her for the rest of the 30min I was there and talked to the other guy. Turns out she made a note that said KICK ME and put it on my back! At that time I had no clue who did it though, so I was looking to see who did it and she had this sly look on her face, I asked her if she did it and she said someting about its not my hand writing. Then she got a big smile so I knew it was her.

 

I also shook her hand thursday cause I was messing around and I didnt let go ( I was sitting down with my arm over the counter) so she kept her hand there and I said OOO NICE AND WARM and she took her other hand and put it on top of that hand that she was already holding. I dunno if that means anything but I liked that alot.. SO ya I am confused and have no clue what to do.. I havent dated since HS and I graduated in 2002, 21yo now so any help would be greatful.