E.C.M. Posted October 28, 2005 Posted October 28, 2005 OK so, I'm new here. Hey sup people! Anyways, I'm kinda new here in Canada. I got here like a year ago, I was from Asia btw. So, I don't really know how guys ask girls out here. So I need some advice. I've known this girl for about 4 months now. We talk almost everyday. I'm always bugging her, but she doesn't really look pissed 'cause sometimes she's bugging me too. But my problem is I want to 'take it to the next level' sounds kinda lame but oh well... I want to ask her out, but the problem is I have no idea how or when. Hell, I don't even know what to say, cause from what I've seen Canadian girls are different. First, what should I say? Should I tell her how I feel about her (She's a really good person, and I haven't seen her mad) or just ask her if she has a bf and say "I want to get to know you more." I'm really confused. So, thanks to whoever helps me.
Neptune Posted October 29, 2005 Posted October 29, 2005 Definitely the first thing is to find out if there is a guy out there. The good thing about this is if she makes it plain that there is not then that may be your first clue she is open to getting together with you. For the record...... a gal that is not interested will often pretend there is a boyfriend out there somewhere. Although the details remain vague. So, if she admits to being "single" just asked her out to whatever may seem to make the most sense. The important thing is to just do it. And don`t in the least be offended if she says no or makes excuses. That is the only way you are going to find out.
glittergurl Posted October 29, 2005 Posted October 29, 2005 The thing is, don't actually "tell her how you feel"; just ask her out and take things step by step. You know?
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