Steph21 Posted October 28, 2005 Posted October 28, 2005 I've recently gotten to know this guy. We've spent quite a bit of time together and the relationship has gotten physical. It seems to me there's a strong attraction between us and we really understand one another. However, he goes through phases of acting like I mean nothing to him. Then I back off for awhile, and when I make contact again, he's really into me again. I hate this and if it were almost anyone else, I would just end all contact because I don't play games like that. Sometimes I think he acts like I mean nothing to him because he thinks it makes me want him more. Or am I just not reading the signs that the definite "connection" I feel is a one-sided thing?
johan Posted October 28, 2005 Posted October 28, 2005 Maybe he's not playing games. Maybe he's being straight with you. Maybe when he acts cold, it's because he has other things going on, or maybe it's because he's not feeling fired up about a relationship at the time. Maybe you should have some things of your own going on, so that if he gets permanently frigid you'll have somewhere else to direct your energy. I don't think this is something to break up over, since it's early enough in the relationship that a "break up" is kind of a silly idea. So just give it time and occupy yourself. See if he shows any signs of coming around, or maybe he just isn't into you enough. You will find out the truth, so making a bunch of assumptions to act on isn't really necessary.
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