Does this email from "her" mean I have a future chance?

[SaddEyes]

I don't know how I feel. I am sorry if I "lead" you to think the wrong things about the two of us. I enjoy hanging out with you but I don't want it to be such a steady "thing". Hanging out...AWSOME. I love hanging otu with us and I think taht is just what we should do for a while...strictly Friends. I don't know what I want in my life and I don't wnat to get hurt, but I also don't want you to think that I think you will hurt me.(if that makes sense) I know you are a great guy and you don't have to tell me that. I just want to enjoy my life of being 19 and having "my life". I am sorry again if I came across as wanting more. Yes we have had great times and I know there will be more to come for sure. Write me back and let me know what you are thinking now.

ttyl

Mary

[westernxer]

She doesn't want you as a boyfriend, but she does want you as a friend.

 

Not exactly a consolation prize...

[SaddEyes]

When she says hang out we sleep together and cuddle and have sex....hold hands...???

[westernxer]

That's perfect... sex and no commitment.

 

Next time don't cuddle. Just pick up and leave. She'll take notice.

[SaddEyes]

but oh well if i won get her i may as well play it out that way and just never talk to her again because its killin me inside.

[whichwayisup]

Friends with benefits = sex, fun, laughing, cuddling but no falling inlove and no committment. She likes you but isn't ready or wanting a real relationship.

 

Can you handle something like that?

[SaddEyes]

So ill just have to tell her im sorry and i cant be friends with you. and move on, she probably wouldnt care anyways...

[whichwayisup]

She does care. Just not enough to get into a relationship, boyfriend/girlfriend deal right now. Seems she hasn't closed the door all the way but right now she isn't looking to settle down with anybody.

[SaddEyes]

It sucks how life pans out for me....im thinking if i stick around she may come around....but if she doesnt whats the point of sticking around...balls!

[The Farmer]

i know how ya feel, i'm in a similiar situation myself right now, your maybe a few steps ahead of what the girl i like and I are at, but she dont wanna commit herself to anything, cuase she dont wanna hurt me, but yet she dont wanna say to me if she likes me as more then a friend or if she ever will or not, the other night she told me when i was talking with her on this subject that she couldnt give me an answere, but she then said that i rate high. That made me feel great, but still i dont know how long i'm willing to wait i really like her. The girl i'm talking about is also younger then the one u r, and i'm little older then what she is. But i have come to the conclusion to just be the one thats there for her, cuase she has told me that i am, and keeping my options open, but idk i feel for her yet. if you have advise on what steps your taking to deal with this or any input let me know i would like to here your progress and whats going on.

[westernxer]

but oh well if i won get her i may as well play it out that way and just never talk to her again because its killin me inside.

 

I know what you mean.... I was just trying to get you hyped.