mikemikemike15 Posted October 28, 2005 Posted October 28, 2005 Ok well me and my girlfriend of 2 and a half years broke up on my birthday (October 14th) I'm 19 and she's 17. It was really odd how it happened we just sgot in an arguement and then didn't talk for a week or so. Then i called her and asked if she missed me and she said "on and off" and since i woke her up she said she'd call me later next week and we'll hang out sometime. I find myself missing her alot and then completly flipping and not missing her at all. i don't know what to think. what gets me the most mad is that her best friend is a total retard and she makes my girlfriend act like a total retard. They just do dumb crap and it's extremely annoying. she acts cool around me, mature and stuff. but when she hangs out with her friend it's just extremely frustrating to know she acts like a moron. Another thing that bothers me is the fact she's hanging out with other guys alot around that friend. i kind of trust her and kind of don't. i know she wouldn't do anything. but i don't know if they lik eplayfully touch her and crap like that if she does anyhting you know. and that bothers me as well. So in short i basicly don't know if i should even try anymore or what. like she never even tells me when she hangs out with her friend because she knows it pisses me off then i just feel like she's being shady about it. any advice is greatly appreciated thanks for taking the time to read it.
westernxer Posted October 28, 2005 Posted October 28, 2005 She's only 17... You sound way too serious for her.
whereismylifegoing Posted October 28, 2005 Posted October 28, 2005 done deal, don't even try to get her back, she's way too young and you are crazy.
J dub Posted October 28, 2005 Posted October 28, 2005 she's way too young and you are crazy. Geeze I've heard of giving someone the ugly truth but this was just downright judgemental. Good job. Mike, she sounds like she loves you but shes not in love with you anymore. Youre better off moving on buddy, you can try to reconcile later if you still want to.
Author mikemikemike15 Posted October 28, 2005 Author Posted October 28, 2005 that's basicly what i planned on... what if she comes back to me? I dunno i'm just kinda scared ot be alone because i'm not attractive haha sounds lame but eh. i don't think i'll ever do better then her.
westernxer Posted October 29, 2005 Posted October 29, 2005 You just killed your future by saying you can't do better... Women love confidence in a man. Ever see an ugly guy with a hot chick? Of course you have. Being ugly yet manly can get you places, but you have to believe in yourself. And don't worry if you get rejected... even hot guys get rejected by women. Beauty is truly in the eye of the beholder.
Hot Coco Posted October 29, 2005 Posted October 29, 2005 "Ever see an ugly guy with a hot chick?" Yes, but he usually has a bulging pocket! (Uh...wait that came out wrong!) $$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$
westernxer Posted October 29, 2005 Posted October 29, 2005 "Ever see an ugly guy with a hot chick?" Yes, but he usually has a bulging pocket! (Uh...wait that came out wrong!) $$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$ I haven't noticed. Staring at a chick's ass tends to make me forgetful.
Nikita20 Posted October 29, 2005 Posted October 29, 2005 Hot Coco: I'm totally cracking up at your statement. I think it could go both ways. Ha!! ha!! Looks can get you so far and they don't last forever. Eventually, over time we all age, the wrinkles appear, the skin sags, etc--the looks we had are gone. What are we left with? The person inside, our true self, our essence, our character, our being. It is what is inside what truly counts.
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