lonely4you Posted October 27, 2005 Posted October 27, 2005 there is this guy and we sort of have a history...i mean we sort of went out for like 3 days or so and he told me we should just be friends....well any who..he can be walking right behind me and not say a thing however if I go up to him he will talk to me like he hasn’t seen me around or something..i am so utterly lost with this dude...is this just because he is shy or is he really avoiding me? i mean an acknowledgment that I exist is all i want. Goodness be!!
alfmetalhead Posted October 28, 2005 Posted October 28, 2005 there is this guy and we sort of have a history...i mean we sort of went out for like 3 days or so and he told me we should just be friends....well any who..he can be walking right behind me and not say a thing however if I go up to him he will talk to me like he hasn’t seen me around or something..i am so utterly lost with this dude...is this just because he is shy or is he really avoiding me? i mean an acknowledgment that I exist is all i want. Goodness be!! This guy definitely knows that you exist but for some reason he feels like ignoring you. I had the same experience with this really shy girl, and i had to do all the talking because whenever she saw me she would act like shes avoiding me. We went out for 2 days, but it didnt last since she just wanted us to remain friends. After going out with her for the 2 days she started doing that avoiding thing and it did make me angry and stressed until i told her that we could remain friends and we should stop this stupid avoiding game. I gave her a huge hug since she was quite shy and from then on we're like really good friends. I think you should just tell him that it really frustrastes you when he acts like that. that way he will be aware of what hes doing and he might not do it again. If he keeps doing it then hes not worth it. Its his problem, not yours.
Author lonely4you Posted October 31, 2005 Author Posted October 31, 2005 I am so glad you responded to this! it is truly helpful! i am so glad someone is out there who is experiencing this as well. I guess i can try and tell him, i sorta have but maybe subtle hints dont always work....the only thing is i still having feelings for him, i want to get over him, but i pervent myself. it blows!! but i think i will just tell him how this is truly buging me and we can be friends. Thanks a bunch! you have no idea how much you have helped!
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