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what does it mean when someone tells you "you know what your problem is? your too agressive..you need to calm down"

 

does that mean a bad thing? or something you need to work on?

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Aggressive.. aka forceful... pushy... demanding...

 

Yup, I've heard this or variations of this before...

 

Yes, it's a bad thing. and Yes it's smth to be worked on (IMO).

 

It means that you are coming on too strong... whether in an argument or a discussion... and the other person is feeling overwhelmed or intimidated... sometimes its NOT abt 'winning' or 'being right' or 'making a point'... sometimes you need to step back, and calm down... and let the other person speak...

 

K. :bunny:

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if someone was too aggressive would you not want to talk to them anymore..what if the other person changed....?

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I have never met anyone who was more aggressive than me!:D

 

I tend to attract my polar opposite... a LO to my HI... the YING to my YANG.. get my drift?

 

So if I met smo who was aggressive... like me... i probably wouldnt be attracted bcuz we'd be too alike (I hate that!)... but its not to say being aggressive is a repulsive quality or smth to abhor.. each to his own!

 

K. :bunny:

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