umuc Posted October 27, 2005 Posted October 27, 2005 what does it mean when someone tells you "you know what your problem is? your too agressive..you need to calm down" does that mean a bad thing? or something you need to work on?
Kengne Posted October 27, 2005 Posted October 27, 2005 Aggressive.. aka forceful... pushy... demanding... Yup, I've heard this or variations of this before... Yes, it's a bad thing. and Yes it's smth to be worked on (IMO). It means that you are coming on too strong... whether in an argument or a discussion... and the other person is feeling overwhelmed or intimidated... sometimes its NOT abt 'winning' or 'being right' or 'making a point'... sometimes you need to step back, and calm down... and let the other person speak... K.
Author umuc Posted October 27, 2005 Author Posted October 27, 2005 if someone was too aggressive would you not want to talk to them anymore..what if the other person changed....?
Kengne Posted October 27, 2005 Posted October 27, 2005 I have never met anyone who was more aggressive than me! I tend to attract my polar opposite... a LO to my HI... the YING to my YANG.. get my drift? So if I met smo who was aggressive... like me... i probably wouldnt be attracted bcuz we'd be too alike (I hate that!)... but its not to say being aggressive is a repulsive quality or smth to abhor.. each to his own! K.
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