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Ok everyone....those of you who know my story.....I HAVE A DATE!!!!!!!!!

 

Can you belive it! I am glad I said yes becasue it shows me that I am redy to move on. AS I told someone else...I do not consider this a rebound. I am ready...I have been on and off for 2 yrs with the ex and it is time to get off-FOREVER!

 

So, since I have only had long term relationships, I can only count on one hand the amount of "dates" I have had!

 

Please-tips!

 

DO I have to kiss him? When he comes to get me do I shake his hand or hug him or what? Oh this is scary, but exciting. My mind is occupied on something else now!!!!!! FINALLY!

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Ok everyone....those of you who know my story.....I HAVE A DATE!!!!!!!!!

 

Hurray! :D

 

DO I have to kiss him? When he comes to get me do I shake his hand or hug him or what? Oh this is scary, but exciting. My mind is occupied on something else now!!!!!! FINALLY!

 

A light touch of his arm and a kiss on the cheek is fine. Good luck Beth :)

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No, you don't have to kiss him. It's a first date, do you know him at all? If you had a good time and are interested in a second date, then it is okay to kiss him.

 

Of course nothing says "call me for a second date" like a lick on the stick.:lmao: j/k j/k.

 

Good luck beth! Good to hear you are moving on!

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Woohoo! Go Beth! :bunny:

 

 

A light touch of his arm and a kiss on the cheek is fine. Good luck Beth :)

 

Yup. Shows you're affectionate, but isn't too forward.

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Congrats, Beth! A gentle peck on the cheek (the facial one :)) and a quick hug is probably fine as the date draws to a close. Depends on how the date goes, I suppose.

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Congratulations on moving forward Beth. :)

 

When you greet him at the beginning of the date let him take the lead. You will know if he's going to do the casual hug or say hi, let's go. Greetings are always a little awkward the first time.

 

When you leave him for the night you don't need to do anything you don't want to do. If you really liked him and want to kiss him then go for it. If you're not sure, a hug will do. If he totally disgusts you then politely say good night, smile and walk away, you don't ever have to see him again.

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Just make sure if the date bombs out to wait for the car to come to a complete stop before bailing out. Don`t ask me why this came to mind....

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Play it by ear :) If you feel like a kiss is warranted and hes sending that signal and you WANT TO then do it :)

 

But typically I give a hug, this is also good if he goes in for a kiss since you can dodge gracefully and if hes smart he'll just kiss your cheek instead.

 

Have fun! Dont stress! :)

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I think I will go for the hug! THanks! I feel like a teen ager!!!!!

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ok 5 hours to go!!!! How can I be almost 30 and feel like a teenager!!!!

 

I will let you all know how it goes

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I will let you all know how it goes

 

So? Don't keep us in suspense... :bunny:

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oh i posted on another thread I was on about narcissim! It went great. I am in shock at how a man is supposed to treat a woman! I am so happy! Have not felt this way in sooo long. We have had 2 dates and 1 tonightand sunday too! AWWWWWWWWWWWW I love it! I forgot how good this feels.......I am trying not to get excited, but it is so hard! Oh we hugged....tongiht I am going in for this kiss if he does not! Is that ok????

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I can barely keep the smile off my face, Beth. I am SO excited for you!!! :bunny: :bunny:

 

Isn't it fun to have butterflies again?

 

And now I will be in suspense. Hehe.

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Update Update!

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....tongiht I am going in for this kiss if he does not! Is that ok????

 

hey, he's yer puppy...... you tell us! :D

 

But, hey, it's darned cool if the girl initiates, for once! :laugh:

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But, hey, it's darned cool if the girl initiates, for once! :laugh:

 

really? cause any time i've ever done that, i've been called a slut.

 

:lmao:

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really? cause any time i've ever done that, i've been called a slut.

 

:lmao:

 

you were just unlucky you met some prehistoric cavemen.

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you were just unlucky you met some prehistoric cavemen.

 

haha, i was kidding.

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haha, i was kidding.

 

So were the cavemen... :p

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Of course nothing says "call me for a second date" like a lick on the stick.:lmao: j/k j/k.

 

 

omg, :lmao: :lmao: :lmao:

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