joan123 Posted January 11, 2023 Share Posted January 11, 2023 Recently single 34yo male..got a new job. Met a girl around 26 at work on my first day. First thing happened was she walked over to me and shook my hand and introduced while I was sitting. I got up said it was really nice to meet her and she invited me for coffee. I went and she bought me a cup and we had good laughs. After I went home I texted her saying if it's OK for me to leave at 5pm...she said yes and then she proceeded to ask me how my day was. Before I knew it I was replying to her questions until 12am. Next day i found out she was engaged. Fair enough, but she still texts me and wants me to go to lunch with her every day since I joined. She really listens to me and shares most intimate details of her life. But I'm confused what she wants from me since she is engaged. She keeps saying s*** like she is so happy she gets to work with and she really looking forward to working on projects witg me...like im some sort of celebrity. I'm just being a friend to her... is that what she wants? Kinda odd since I only know her for 3 days.. Link to post Share on other sites
basil67 Posted January 11, 2023 Share Posted January 11, 2023 You were 22yo in a different post six months ago. 1 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Wiseman2 Posted January 11, 2023 Share Posted January 11, 2023 1 hour ago, joan123 said: found out she was engaged. Keep things polite and professional at all times. She is a coworker and involved with someone, so she's just being welcoming and friendly. Link to post Share on other sites
JTSW Posted January 19, 2023 Share Posted January 19, 2023 In response to this post, she hasn't shown any signs of romantic interest. She is a very friendly, bubbly and just making you feel welcome. She's engaged so stop with any other thoughts about her. Now, a previous post of yours you say you are 22 yrs old, which is it? Link to post Share on other sites
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