ggoerl Posted October 27, 2005 Posted October 27, 2005 Me and my girlfriend have been going out for about over a month now and we talk for a little bit, "how was your day" and "what happened" and stuff like that, but after that its pretty much dead silent nothing more to say. I wanna keep talking to her and keep her talking but what more is there to say? my mind goes blank and I cant think of anything to say.
Outcast Posted October 27, 2005 Posted October 27, 2005 There is a whole big world full of things going on that you can talk about, starting with your everyday life - movies, food, TV shows, news, etc etc etc.
Bill-RiZeR Posted October 27, 2005 Posted October 27, 2005 first thing is first, you need to know what you and the your girlfriend likes. Then start talking about it. Or another good idea is to go see a movie with her then talk about it. That's a great way to get a conversation running for a while.
starr3546 Posted October 27, 2005 Posted October 27, 2005 There are many different things to talk about, if your in school or work tell her about those things, and what things you have going on; i.e. tests, quizes, clients, people at work. Talk about something your interested in doing in the future or something fun you have done in the past, that maybe you guys could do together, concerts, skiing...movies, etc.... Ask her about her I mean a month isnt' too long i am sure there are tons of things to still talk about. What are you guys doing for halloween, what are you being, are you dressing up as, are you going anywhere. Those are somethings to talk about. The world is big with tons in it maybe plan somethings b4 you guys talk that way you aren't searching for things to say. Maybe once you get over the i don't know what to say thing, talking will become easier. Do you guys have this communication issue when your together, because if so maybe you guys just don't have that much in common and maybe it is just more of a physical rather than mental connection.
ggoerl Posted October 27, 2005 Posted October 27, 2005 yes. we talk about most of the stuff you have mentioned we always watch movies, I've talked to her about her halloween costume and I know her likes and dislikes in which we are both similar. Im just trying to keep the conversation going. thanks for the help so far.
Lishy Posted October 27, 2005 Posted October 27, 2005 I find that i cant talk as fluently with someone i am not so connected with! Are you very different in personality?
ggoerl Posted October 28, 2005 Posted October 28, 2005 yea thats pretty much how I am if its just an aquantince I can talk for along time with him/her. I guess im just thinking to hard of something. I mean we have same interests and everything and we talk alot, but not enough like we shuold be. What do you mean very different in personality do you mean when im with her?
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