Hot Coco Posted October 27, 2005 Posted October 27, 2005 Woggle, you "let her put your head in your lap." I see.
Woggle Posted October 27, 2005 Posted October 27, 2005 Woggle, you "let her put your head in your lap." I see. I said her head in my lap.
AlmostMarried77 Posted October 27, 2005 Posted October 27, 2005 I used to have a similar problem with an old girl friend... I would go round on say a saturday morning and she would be in a mood (due to the pms) to bite my head off. She'd be crying or very close to it and very arguementative. Nothing i could say would be the "right" thing to have said. Everytime it would end up with me walking out... ... Then coming back 30 mins later with a soppy girly video for her, some chocolates and/or ice-cream and ingredients for a really nice meal. Stick her in front of the TV with the chocolates, Then i'd get to work in the kitchen. She lived in a shared house too, one of the things that pi**ed her off was the state of the kitchen, so that would get sorted out before i cooked. Anyway - by the end of the day she'd be apologising for acting like such a bitch... whilst unzipping my jeans Hand on heart though - i never did it for the BJ's, i did it cause i couldn't bear to see her in such a bad state.
basscatcher Posted October 27, 2005 Posted October 27, 2005 I used to have a similar problem with an old girl friend... I would go round on say a saturday morning and she would be in a mood (due to the pms) to bite my head off. She'd be crying or very close to it and very arguementative. Nothing i could say would be the "right" thing to have said. Everytime it would end up with me walking out... ... Then coming back 30 mins later with a soppy girly video for her, some chocolates and/or ice-cream and ingredients for a really nice meal. Stick her in front of the TV with the chocolates, Then i'd get to work in the kitchen. She lived in a shared house too, one of the things that pi**ed her off was the state of the kitchen, so that would get sorted out before i cooked. Anyway - by the end of the day she'd be apologising for acting like such a bitch... whilst unzipping my jeans Hand on heart though - i never did it for the BJ's, i did it cause i couldn't bear to see her in such a bad state. OMG YOU ARE A DREAM MAN........ DAMN.............. HE'S DEFINETELY GOLD IN MY BOOK..
bab Posted October 27, 2005 Posted October 27, 2005 Bab, You said: Usually there is, "OMG you put up with me" thank you bj the next day too. THERE IS? Only when I'm really bad. Plus for some reason the day I start I get really really horny. Go figure.
RainyDayWoman Posted October 27, 2005 Posted October 27, 2005 Even if I get crabby and cold. Kill me with your supportive non confrontational manner. That is what is best. Ask her. NOT now if she is PMSing. the first part is REALLY hard for anyone to do. even if it works the first few times, it's difficult not to get frustrated with anyone who is excessively grumpy. my boyfriend is pretty good when i'm not feeling well, but i know i do get crabby and i can't really expect him to be like "oh well. i love you!" every time. PMS is hard to deal with for men, because they can never really understand it. I don't blame their frustration. i think your way is a good way if it works for you, P. And if it does, you're lucky to have someone who goes along with it. the second part, yes, definitely do not ask her now.
Outcast Posted October 27, 2005 Posted October 27, 2005 ... Then coming back 30 mins later with a soppy girly video for her, some chocolates and/or ice-cream and ingredients for a really nice meal. Stick her in front of the TV with the chocolates, Then i'd get to work in the kitchen. She lived in a shared house too, one of the things that pi**ed her off was the state of the kitchen, so that would get sorted out before i cooked. You, sir, are a genius because they can never really understand it This is not rocket science: biochemistry regulates mood, periods throw biochemistry into disarray and hence moods are thrown into disarray. Understand it's not logical or rational and wait it out.
RainyDayWoman Posted October 28, 2005 Posted October 28, 2005 This is not rocket science: biochemistry regulates mood, periods throw biochemistry into disarray and hence moods are thrown into disarray. Understand it's not logical or rational and wait it out. i meant what it feels like and how it personally effects a mood. stop trying to be so argumentative, it's really annoying.
Outcast Posted October 28, 2005 Posted October 28, 2005 Well how's about saying what you mean for clarity's sake?
witabix Posted October 28, 2005 Posted October 28, 2005 Well how's about saying what you mean for clarity's sake? LMAO!!! Thats what I always say!!! If you hear the phrase PMS it usually means Pre Murder Syndrome, if you don't its Post Murder Syndrome. I have to smile when I see PMS and BJ's talked about in the same discussion. I'd be too scared she bite it off!!!!
littlekitty Posted October 28, 2005 Posted October 28, 2005 Hey I don't know about you ladies, but I've known men with PMS (Periodical Mens Tension)!!! Seriously about once a month, for no particular reason they just get all sh*tty!!! And no... it's not when I'm pmsing!! I'm fortunate not to really suffer apart from the odd tears!!
basscatcher Posted October 28, 2005 Posted October 28, 2005 PMS is hard to deal with for men, because they can never really understand it. I don't blame their frustration. i think your way is a good way if it works for you, P. And if it does, you're lucky to have someone who goes along with it. I'm not real bitchy when I'm PMSing. I'm more emotional. I can easily be calmed with a gentle hug and a reassuring comment like "it's ok baby, let me just hold you and be close." I'm easy!!! I'm fairly easy to calm down. I'm more child like when I'm PMSing. I crave TLC.. BABY ME PLEASE.. My insecuritites come out and I basically just need reassurance from my man and I want him to be close to me and relax. I'm not the psychotic, bitchy type.. So the man that is in my life has it easy. "I already told Mr. Landscaper that when I have PMS I just need his attention and reassurance of his feelings for me. EASY...."
slubberdegullion Posted October 28, 2005 Posted October 28, 2005 I'm easy!!! scurries online to check airline ticket prices from Toronto to Minn/St. Paul
basscatcher Posted October 28, 2005 Posted October 28, 2005 scurries online to check airline ticket prices from Toronto to Minn/St. Paul :lmao: Do you think you will be able to steal me away from my Landscaper???? :lmao:
slubberdegullion Posted October 28, 2005 Posted October 28, 2005 Haven't met the dude. But there's no law in my books that says you can't have us both.
basscatcher Posted October 28, 2005 Posted October 28, 2005 Haven't met the dude. But there's no law in my books that says you can't have us both. I would burn myself....
RainyDayWoman Posted October 28, 2005 Posted October 28, 2005 Well how's about saying what you mean for clarity's sake? i assumed it was understood that men could learn the physiology, but not the personal effects because they don't experience it. so sorry.
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