What the heck was this?

[basil67]

12 minutes ago, Lookingforlasting said:

It  Actually had little to do with his appearance. I do find him attractive but what impressed me more was his intellect and character and traits I was not finding another men.  Also how easily and well we got along intellectually compatible. He recently mentioned these sane traits about me he had found attractive also. And hoe much fun we had together even doing simple things like food shopping or  laughing so hard we could bately breathe when we were trying to go to sleep at night.

Thank you for clarifying.  These things all make for a fun time, it takes more than this to be long term compatible

[poppyfields]

17 minutes ago, Lookingforlasting said:

I did ask him for examples of instances.

And no I never said I relate better to younger men...he was in many ways older for his age though...his friends even often made fun of him for it. I have never sought out or initiated with a younger guy btw and actually never would have believed if someone told me 20 years ago I would date some...but yes he is also the last younger guy I will ever date.

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I wish you peace moving forward.

As I said earlier, I truly hope 2023 will be a better year for you.

 

Edited December 27, 2022 by a LoveShack.org Moderator
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[Alpacalia]

I wouldn't beat yourself up too much.

There's many a posters here with an ex or dating "players" that hardly qualify as having characteristics of a good man. 

In any case, he seems like a jerk.

He was wrong to enter into a relationship with you knowing he would be moving for work. He chose to keep that information from you. I'm guessing this was quite a shock for you. 

As others have pointed out, both of you were incompatible from the start.

Not much left to say about that.

[Lisa]

Thread has been closed as it's running in circles