kgal Posted October 26, 2005 Posted October 26, 2005 Right now...I'm not sure, he hasn't confirmed or answered me about "us".... It's just been going downhill for a few months now..and now I can barely even get a hold of him. He has so many excuses , I just don't think he wants to be with me. I've been real down..it's hard at night, cuz he's just not there for me anymore.
smile95 Posted October 26, 2005 Posted October 26, 2005 went thru the same thing with a LDR> Except when I did get ahold of him, he would say everything was fine......I am sorry you are hurting......find someone closer....that is what I am working on. LDRs are so darn hard.
d'Arthez Posted October 26, 2005 Posted October 26, 2005 Sorry to hear so kgal. Try not to obsess at the screen of your computer. But to spend time with your friends. He has your email address, and if he is going to respond before 2042, he will do that, regardless of you being online or not.
smile95 Posted October 26, 2005 Posted October 26, 2005 not that I am one to give good advice, but do not call him. I always felt worse after getting a voice mail or him ignoring me. That is so true, if he wants to talk, he will call. I learned that the hard way.
MakeMeBeautiful Posted October 27, 2005 Posted October 27, 2005 long distance relationships are hard when both are not doing everything to make it work. i live in colorado. the guy i was seeing lived in huntington beach CA. i now know that he didn't really want to be with me because he never made the effort to be with me. i still talk to him. i talked to him last night. he is now in another long distance relationship and he told me how much he wants the two of them to live in the same city. he would pack up a uhaul and move to be with her if she only wanted him to. it still hurts to know that he didn't think i was special enough for him.
Curt Posted October 27, 2005 Moderators Posted October 27, 2005 Right now...I'm not sure, he hasn't confirmed or answered me about "us".... It's just been going downhill for a few months now..and now I can barely even get a hold of him. He has so many excuses , I just don't think he wants to be with me. I've been real down..it's hard at night, cuz he's just not there for me anymore. Is this the same guy you mentioned back on the other thread? The musician or something? Curt
Author kgal Posted October 27, 2005 Author Posted October 27, 2005 He's not a musician.. but I've been posting about this relationship for a while now. I haven't contacted him at all today..I don't plan to. He knows how to contact me, you're all right about that. He is still someone I would want to keep as a friend if things don't work out... after some time of course. I have a very good support system..but still I get depressed. I'm trying not to stress over this. Thanks for the replies!!
Milo Posted October 28, 2005 Posted October 28, 2005 long distance relationships are hard when both are not doing everything to make it work. i live in colorado. the guy i was seeing lived in huntington beach CA. Imagine that. I live and work in Denver and our home office is in Huntington Beach, CA. My wife wanted to move back to her home town in Europe, so I am still working here puting some money in the bank. She has a new job and got a car, but is still sleeping on the parents' couch. I'm in a friend's basement. It's nuts, since we used to have a nice house. As it is, it looks like it will be 6 months total before I can move over there.
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