MissMinarut Posted December 18, 2022 Posted December 18, 2022 (edited) Hey, I have a friend who I have known for a few years. We did work together and I was his manager. We don't work together anymore. After I got drunk I finally told him I liked him. He said the same a few months later to me. At the time things in my life were messy. We met up a few times (not dates) and hit it off then started to have sex (not regularly) once every couple of months. When he is drunk, he says he likes me, flirts, and this happens alot. One time we stayed up talking all night, cuddling and no sex! The last time we seen each other he said he was looking forward to the night and it wasn't all sexual. He always says I look good, really complimenting and generally a nice guy. People have started to see the attraction between us. If I go out and mention it he always asks who I went out with. My question is... am I wasting my time or can this go somewhere if we let I grow naturally. My life is alot more stable and he knows i am looking to date. Edited December 18, 2022 by MissMinarut Missing info
stillafool Posted December 18, 2022 Posted December 18, 2022 Do you want to be his gf or just want to date? If you both are single I see no reason for you not to tell him how you feel. The only way to know if this is going to work is to go for it.
Wiseman2 Posted December 19, 2022 Posted December 19, 2022 12 hours ago, MissMinarut said: I got drunk I finally told him I liked him. When he is drunk, he says he likes me. To be honest, it's better if this doesn't "go anywhere". Think of him as a drinking buddy at best. He doesn't seem interested in a relationship.
JTSW Posted December 19, 2022 Posted December 19, 2022 Talk to him about it, tell him how you feel. If he's not on the same wave length as you then don't see him anymore. If he is, and wants to the same things then great. You never know until you try. It does sound like to me that he is into you.
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