Sgthaytham Posted November 30, 2022 Posted November 30, 2022 Context: GF of 6 months treats me like a king. She sent me a message maybe an hour after she had called me for a chat. In the message she said that she couldn't help her insecurities and that she thinks I'm too good looking to be true and that she's scared sometimes. She means the world to me. I feel so damn special whenever we're together. She cooks me meals, she shows me affection, she gives and gives and gives. Like a couple of weeks ago she gave me a card telling me how good she feels with me, how everything is so effortless and how much she loves me. Obviously this all makes me feel so good, and I'm so glad I'm sharing my life with someone so kind and generous. It's just a bit difficult in the sense that I've never been so lucky... I dont know how I can put it. I mean, even with her family, whom I met a month ago are fantastic and I got along with all of them. With Christmas coming up, she wants us to spend it together and I'm trying to think about something special for us both. 3
JTSW Posted November 30, 2022 Posted November 30, 2022 That's so wonderful. I too feel blessed with my husband. He is amazing. Been together 20 years, married for 10. We have a daughter and he has a son from a previous relationship who I adore. We always tell each other how much we love each other daily. We do so much for each other. We are soul mates. 4
Gaeta Posted December 4, 2022 Posted December 4, 2022 That is sooo nice to read! Thank you for sharing. I, too, feel like I won the lottery when I met my new boyfriend of 3 months now. He makes me feel on top of the world, he's kind, attentive, generous, openned like a book, so funny and he's always prioritizing us. I had to wait till I was 56 to experience a relationship like this, I envy those who hit the jackpot early in life!
Alvi Posted December 4, 2022 Posted December 4, 2022 Good for you! Just remember to give back as much as you receive.
smackie9 Posted December 4, 2022 Posted December 4, 2022 Sounds like there might be a promise ring under the tree this year......
poppyfields Posted December 4, 2022 Posted December 4, 2022 (edited) On 11/29/2022 at 6:26 PM, Sgthaytham said: It's just a bit difficult in the sense that I've never been so lucky... I dont know how I can put it. OP, can you expound on this?^^ It's not about "luck," it's about two people finding each other and who believe they are the right fit for each other. What's difficult about it? Do you believe her "give, give, give" attutude and behavior, unconditionally, is something to be concerned about? Some might consider it "lovebombing." I mean imo it does sound a bit much. Her insecurity, need for reassurance, give, give, give without expecting much in return. What do YOU think? I can't help get the sense that while you enjoy being treated like a "king" (your word), you're not totally comfortable with it. What responses were you hoping to receive by posting this? Other than that, enjoy, see where it goes. Remember to give back. The best relationships are a healthy balance of give and take. Good luck! Edited December 4, 2022 by poppyfields
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