Wiseman2 Posted November 16, 2022 Posted November 16, 2022 (edited) 12 hours ago, samantha99 said: would love any advice in general on transitioning to "adult life" and coping with how mundane/repetitive it can feel. It seems more like transaction to the drugery of living together. Do you both contribute roughly equally financially? Do you both contribute roughly equally to household stuff? Hopefully you weren't imported there to support him financially, emotionally and household wise in his endeavors. Why did you move to his college town? Do you want to live there? If you work from home on top of being stuck with him and his issues every night it's going to get very depressing very soon. Who's idea is just vegging to netflix every night? Try to figure out what is really happening here and if you are really that happy with all this. If he can't handle grad school, that's not your problem to fix. You should never put anyone through school or be their support system unless you are married and the relationship is solid. Playing house may work for him, but it seems to be burning you out trying to make it all work. Edited November 16, 2022 by Wiseman2
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