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Physical touch during early stage dating


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During a first date (or early stages of dating), if a woman tells you she likes you (if you are a heterosexual male), but would rather not have extended physical contact (such as long makeout sessions, not just s3x) until you get to know each other more, would that make you feel that the woman is not actually into you?

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Everyone and every circumstance is different. Some would rather wait because of moral values, chemistry or the fact you are complete strangers, etc. If they keep saying yes to dates, then that's interest. 

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1 hour ago, nc87whf said:

During a first date , if a woman tells you she likes you , but would rather not have extended physical contact until you get to know each other more, would that make you feel that the woman is not actually into you?

If you like him and he asks you out again then go. However if you feel he's too aggressive and tries pawing you up, suggests going to his place etc., then don't go out again. There's no need to announce it because how you act and where you go will determine if/when physical contact happens.

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That wouldn’t bother me much at all. However,  I’d be trying to figure out how do I get this woman to want to rip my clothes off sooner rather than later.

All I need to see is hope but things must gradually progress at a steady pace or I would lose hope sooner rather than later. Pacing is the key…

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