He stopped initiating contact but always replies and asks me out

[poppyfields]

On 11/12/2022 at 10:15 AM, karendonaire said:

I told him about a month ago, before our first date - when we met in the gym, it is important for me that we text everyday.

I told about this to him on our second date that it is what I would like as this is how I feel connected.

You're gonna drive men away with these types of requests, especially early in when a man is in the process of moving closer to you.. 

Texting every day may make you feel more connected, but in these early stages, he is more likely to feel pressured, burdened and suffocated.

Give him a chance to think about you, wonder about you, miss you!

Many men fall in love through distance, the times you're apart. Google it, read about it, how men fall in love.  

Stop playing games.  You're sending mixed and double messages, like ignoring him when he asked your schedule. 

He probably doesn't know which way is up.

 

Edited November 14, 2022 by poppyfields

[basil67]

Your last thread was also about problems from when you didn't reach out as one would have expected.  A bit of reflection as to the bigger picture here could be helpful

 

 

[JTSW]

It seems that YOU are the problem here OP.

Not the guys you date.

You tell them you need communication every day yet ignore their requests so they back off because it seems like you are not interested.

Your previous posts are all about the same thing.

You give mixed signals.

Time for some self reflection.

Stop complaining about them and look at yourself.