Is it normal for texting to become less frequent after meeting or should I be worried?

[VariousMatters]

We stay quite far from one another and texted back and forth for about a week before meeting up. The texting was deep, honest, heated and we actually found great connection quite quickly, this was no different in person. Chemistry was magical and we ended up having sex. After this, we still constantly chatted but less as he was back at work and I realize the amount of texting we were doing was unsustainable. He would still be very charming, inquisitive and caring, calling me things like queen and sending updates and voice messages - just leas frequent, but definitely still every day at least two detailed interactions. He will even go as far as to send little videos with updates. We saw each-other again after a little over a week and the conversation and chemistry was amazing once again. He ended up staying over. I don’t have any expectations of this, but I am really enjoying it and him, so I just want to know whether I need to start panicking or whether I am self-sabotaging? It’s early days. I don’t want to come off as insecure by asking him about it? Is it natural for texting to become less as in person interaction increases? Should I take a step back? 🥹 He is visiting his fam this weekend whom he hasn’t seen on ages, so I thought it would be a good idea to give him this time to maybe miss my constant interaction and presence? 

[Wiseman2]

1 hour ago, VariousMatters said:

We stay quite far from one another and texted back and forth for about a week before meeting up.I just want to know whether I need to start panicking He is visiting his fam this weekend whom he hasn’t seen on ages, so I thought it would be a good idea to give him this time to maybe miss my constant interaction and presence? 

 How far away is he? It seems to be going great and after a very  good connection things have relaxed into back to everyday life. Yes step back "constant interaction" is oversaturation and text-tethering. Avoid that... No need to panic. Texting is not dating. Have you been to his place yet?

[glows]

This is hard to say. It’s too early so see how it goes. When you say less frequent, how so? Do you work? 

Did he tell you he’d like to see you again? 

How far is the long distance? Is meeting in person sustainable?

[VariousMatters]

1 hour ago, glows said:

This is hard to say. It’s too early so see how it goes. When you say less frequent, how so? Do you work? 

Did he tell you he’d like to see you again? 

How far is the long distance? Is meeting in person sustainable?

I have the very same concerns but I feel like if it can organically reach its full potential, I will be satisfied, regardless of what that looks like. I admire his soul and love the way he thinks, plus the chemistry is next level. 

[glows]

18 minutes ago, VariousMatters said:

I have the very same concerns but I feel like if it can organically reach its full potential, I will be satisfied, regardless of what that looks like. I admire his soul and love the way he thinks, plus the chemistry is next level. 

That’s fine but not enough to base anything steady or committed on. 

What does “full potential” mean to you?