Does this mean more then just friends??

[The Farmer]

Hi, girl i like for a long time totaly nuts over her, talk all the time, and she comes and hangs out with me every once in a while, now she is yet in high school and I in college, the other night was talking with her, and she mentioned something to me that she is afraid of commitment? she said she dont no why and she wish's she was'nt but she is, and after we got done talking she goes i hope i didnt scare you? question 1. i have is does she care about me that she asked that question? i mean she knows that i like her, i've told her, but was she kinda hinting to me something or not? another thing is that when i got off the phone she told me she cant wait to talk to me agian? i mean i really like her, such a great girl, and has a lot of values in a girl that i look for, since she is only in high school yet is that something that over time she will get over? should it be something i should worry about at all if she agrres to go to the next level and want to date me? i mean i've been there for her threw the up's and down's this past half of yr or so, she comes to me to talka bout a lot of things, and she said that i'm pretty much her best friend thats a boy? is all this stuff taht she saying positive signs? what are the odd's of say me going from one of her best friends thats a boy to actually being her b/f? is she playing me or am i just to soft hearted?

[tonyp56]

You say she's in high school and your in college, so the first thing I'd say, as long as she's 18, then go for it. Ask her, don't beat around the bush, just come out the next time you two are "Hanging" and ask her to be your girlfriend. Reassure her, that you understand that she has a problem with commitment--which will show her you listened to her, but you want to see where the two of you can go together as boyfriend and girlfriend.

 

She'll either say no or she'll say yes. Don't sit around hoping, just go for it. If you don't, you'll always wonder if it could have been.