lonely4you Posted October 26, 2005 Posted October 26, 2005 i started developing a crush on this particular guy who was in two of my class. After a couple months or so, we found out we both liked eachother. I was estatic. Then the following monday we had a class together he didnt come up to me or anything. later in the next class we shared, he tells me he is unexpierenced with girls, he hasnt had a girlfriend before that is why he is shy and such. Two days later he asks me if we can just be friends. Well i didnt get over him and i talked to him whenever i can hoping we could rekindle, but it seems like he tries to avoid me, but when we talk it doesnt seem like he is agitated. i just want to just tell him i like him just to recieve the rejection, but it is hard for me to do. I rarely talk to him now, but i want to, i want to try again....what in the hells should i do?! its like i want to make excuses for him why he doesnt talk...maybe he is truly shy.
justsomeguy Posted October 26, 2005 Posted October 26, 2005 Ok I don't want to give you bad advise, but I I am very sure of the general thing you should do. First don't waste a lot of time, because it can drag on and slip by if you do. You say he likes you, if he does then you should tell him you want to "do something some time". Are you in college? If he seems up for that then hand him your number and exchange numbers. I would just get lunch together and introduce yourselves some more and talk about stuff and be friendly and fun. Exchange numbers so you have contact and you don't have to wait to run into this guy in class if you want to do something. That is basically it. I assume you are serious about considering people for relationships so you just want to get to know him and see how interested you are in him. Then you can meet him in the future if you like him. Oh, yeah about that avoiding you, he probably isn't avoiding you, but maybe he thought he did enough already and didn't want to push the situation. What do you think about that?
Author lonely4you Posted October 26, 2005 Author Posted October 26, 2005 I think your advise was truly helpfull. I am so glad you took the time to help me out. If i give him my number it wont give any arises to awkwardness would it? Am i implying too much with the passing of the digits? I see him around at lunch, but i am just unsure if i should approach him, i am unsure sometimes if he wants to still talk to me. I agree with the last part as well. Perhaps he does feel he has done enough i just wish he was doing the approaching and not me. i am just unsure of his feelings towards me. I dont want to be the hopeless crush following him around and getting all googly eyed. Thats why i have thought to just tell him just so i can get over the ifs that i have. i want no regrets....life is sublime aint it?
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