ConfidentFoot7794 Posted September 30, 2022 Posted September 30, 2022 I have been in college for a little over a month now and there is this girl who always stares at me. I am also a woman and I get gay vibes from her. She told a fellow classmate that she is masculine, wears boxers to bed. She held the door for me when I was far enough away to wear it wasn't necessary for her to hold the door. I did not even have anything heavy I was carrying. She complimented me and even said I looked good for being 30 and a mom. No one else in my class stares at me and I am not sure what to think of this. Is this nothing and I'm just making more out of it?
Maldives Posted September 30, 2022 Posted September 30, 2022 Too early to tell. Does her attention bother you?
Author ConfidentFoot7794 Posted September 30, 2022 Author Posted September 30, 2022 It doesn't bother me, and how is it too early to tell?
basil67 Posted September 30, 2022 Posted September 30, 2022 We've all been guilty to opening the door to someone too early and then it's rude if you let it go but awkward if you hold it. There's nothing to read into this action. It's also not at all unusual to wear boxers to bed as many women's summer PJs are a tank and boxers style. The only thing which is odd is that she stares at you. It could just be that there's something about you which intrigues her. If you're single, gay and interested go and chat with her. If you're married and straight, perhaps have a conversation with her. She may cease staring if she gets to know you.
NuevoYorko Posted September 30, 2022 Posted September 30, 2022 Why can't people just take someone's interest in stride and let it be? If there's "more" to it, the person will do something like ask you out. Or if they don't ask you out maybe you will feel emboldened to ask them out. Or, nobody does anything, and if there was "more" it all came to naught and ended up just being a person that stared at you and held a door open for you one day out of the 28,835 days of your life. 1
glows Posted September 30, 2022 Posted September 30, 2022 4 hours ago, ConfidentFoot7794 said: I have been in college for a little over a month now and there is this girl who always stares at me. I am also a woman and I get gay vibes from her. She told a fellow classmate that she is masculine, wears boxers to bed. She held the door for me when I was far enough away to wear it wasn't necessary for her to hold the door. I did not even have anything heavy I was carrying. She complimented me and even said I looked good for being 30 and a mom. No one else in my class stares at me and I am not sure what to think of this. Is this nothing and I'm just making more out of it? Are you married or attached/in a relationship? It sounds polite except the staring, not very mature. What’s the age gap?
Wiseman2 Posted September 30, 2022 Posted September 30, 2022 8 hours ago, ConfidentFoot7794 said: It doesn't bother me, Are you looking for a same sex relationship or friendship?
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