Johnjohnson2017 Posted September 30, 2022 Posted September 30, 2022 She's an escort. You don't even know her real name. Did she actually give you her name? If she was interested in you romantically, she would have shared personal information about herself. Escorts will not reveal real information about themselves. Everything they tell you will be a lie unless you've been a client for a while. If you met a girl online, then, after a few dates, you found out she was an escort, that would have been a different situation entirely. She probably was luring you in trying to seduce you so you would be like a sugar daddy. The video call was probably to make sure you were not a catfish and to make sure you were some crazy guy. 1
Ami1uwant Posted September 30, 2022 Posted September 30, 2022 2 hours ago, Goodguy05 said: I see your logic but I can tell you from experience because I've followed escorts in the past cos I like to look at their photos and none have interacted like that with me. I just thought it was unusual but again you're probably right. It's just a business thing you know will. Obviously it was in the end I’ve been approached a few times by people and they then turned to try to sell me something or get something from me. you don’t date people you got from professional sources… 1
Despin Posted September 30, 2022 Posted September 30, 2022 I'm not seeing anything deceptive here. She's an escort, she marketed herself as an escort, and she discussed fee for service before you even met. What did you expect? 4
NuevoYorko Posted September 30, 2022 Posted September 30, 2022 On 9/29/2022 at 12:50 PM, Goodguy05 said: I agree with that. Except for the fact that I didn't interact with her, she was interacting with me and kept reaching out to me liking her pictures on her professional page = interacting 3
basil67 Posted September 30, 2022 Posted September 30, 2022 From the sex workers POV, it stands to reason that a guy who follows and 'likes' their posts has an interest in their services. I can't see that she did anything wrong 5
NuevoYorko Posted September 30, 2022 Posted September 30, 2022 3 minutes ago, basil67 said: From the sex workers POV, it stands to reason that a guy who follows and 'likes' their posts has an interest in their services. I can't see that she did anything wrong Me neither. She did things right. I'm sorry OP got his feelings hurt, but she was following a hot lead - in sales terms. 1
Author Maldives Posted October 1, 2022 Author Posted October 1, 2022 5 hours ago, Johnjohnson2017 said: She's an escort. You don't even know her real name. Did she actually give you her name? If she was interested in you romantically, she would have shared personal information about herself. Escorts will not reveal real information about themselves. Everything they tell you will be a lie unless you've been a client for a while. If you met a girl online, then, after a few dates, you found out she was an escort, that would have been a different situation entirely. She probably was luring you in trying to seduce you so you would be like a sugar daddy. The video call was probably to make sure you were not a catfish and to make sure you were some crazy guy. Yep, agree 100% with you that makes sense
Author Maldives Posted October 1, 2022 Author Posted October 1, 2022 3 hours ago, Despin said: I'm not seeing anything deceptive here. She's an escort, she marketed herself as an escort, and she discussed fee for service before you even met. What did you expect? The fee for service and exchange was only mentioned after a few months of contact with messaging and the video call, I don't know to me it was leading me on. But you know you're right, she's an escort. I should know better. But like I've said in my post I followed other escorts. They don't behave like that. Anyway, she did advertise girlfriend experience so it makes more sense now.
Despin Posted October 1, 2022 Posted October 1, 2022 Just now, Goodguy05 said: The fee for service and exchange was only mentioned after a few months of contact with messaging and the video cal She's one patient saleswoman! Might be worth the fee. 1
basil67 Posted October 1, 2022 Posted October 1, 2022 1 minute ago, Goodguy05 said: They don't behave like that. It's not 'behaviour'. It's marketing and sales - there's nothing wrong with chasing a lead. This could well lead her to having regular clientele.
Author Maldives Posted October 1, 2022 Author Posted October 1, 2022 (edited) 4 minutes ago, Despin said: She's one patient saleswoman! Might be worth the fee. Haha lol My thoughts exactly who would even bother. I used to be in sales. There's a term for people like that. We used to call them Tyre Kickers because they're just wasting your time. So that's where it really didn't make sense to me to do it for months Edited October 1, 2022 by Goodguy05
Despin Posted October 1, 2022 Posted October 1, 2022 15 minutes ago, Goodguy05 said: Haha lol My thoughts exactly who would even bother. I used to be in sales. There's a term for people like that. We used to call them Tyre Kickers because they're just wasting your time. So that's where it really didn't make sense to me to do it for months How much time did she really put into it? A message here or there to keep you on the hook.. probably not much more than that? 2
Author Maldives Posted October 1, 2022 Author Posted October 1, 2022 7 minutes ago, Despin said: How much time did she really put into it? A message here or there to keep you on the hook.. probably not much more than that? Not really that much come to think of it sporadic
Despin Posted October 1, 2022 Posted October 1, 2022 Well there ya go. It was a lot more to you then it was for her. 1
Author Maldives Posted October 1, 2022 Author Posted October 1, 2022 4 minutes ago, Despin said: Well there ya go. It was a lot more to you then it was for her. Yep spot on it sure was.
Despin Posted October 1, 2022 Posted October 1, 2022 Well you can rest assured she was bummed out when she realized that you weren't interested in sending any cash her way.
Author Maldives Posted October 1, 2022 Author Posted October 1, 2022 Just now, Despin said: Well you can rest assured she was bummed out when she realized that you weren't interested in sending any cash her way. Haha I have no way of knowing that lol. There were times where the conversation went on for a bit I should add. She was very clever.
Despin Posted October 1, 2022 Posted October 1, 2022 Well since we know she was looking at you as a potential customer, and spent some amount of time trying to hook you in, it would naturally follow that she would be bummed out when she realized she lost a sale. It's like hanging up on a telemarketer. 1
ExpatInItaly Posted October 1, 2022 Posted October 1, 2022 3 hours ago, Goodguy05 said: Not really that much come to think of it sporadic So this was very low-effort for her, in other words. She probably does this with all the guys who don't immediately book her. She keeps them on the hook in hopes she can make money off them sooner or later. In the meantime, she is making money off other men. All she was doing there is keeping a potential client (you) in the loop while she entertained others. 1
Author Maldives Posted October 1, 2022 Author Posted October 1, 2022 How she treated others one day will come back to her I believe in karma what goes around comes around
basil67 Posted October 1, 2022 Posted October 1, 2022 (edited) @Goodguy05 she did nothing wrong and there is no reason for her to be karma-ed. If you're interacting with sex workers, particularly ones who offer 'girlfriend experience' you've got to expect that they will market themselves in a girlfriendy kind of way. Edited October 1, 2022 by basil67 1
Wiseman2 Posted October 1, 2022 Posted October 1, 2022 1 hour ago, Goodguy05 said: I believe in karma what goes around comes around Well that is kind of sour grapes,no? Social media is the new marketing tool in a sort of sell without hard sell kind of way. For example "influencers" people paid to seem like regular social media users that are actually subtly selling. You weren't duped, you just wanted a GF experience and rode with that. All you can do is use social media wisely and realize if there's a link to an escort page, well then it is what it is. 2
SingFish Posted October 1, 2022 Posted October 1, 2022 4 hours ago, Goodguy05 said: How she treated others one day will come back to her I believe in karma what goes around comes around Yes, put it behind you now. 1
Author Maldives Posted October 1, 2022 Author Posted October 1, 2022 (edited) 4 hours ago, basil67 said: @Goodguy05 she did nothing wrong and there is no reason for her to be karma-ed. If you're interacting with sex workers, particularly ones who offer 'girlfriend experience' you've got to expect that they will market themselves in a girlfriendy kind of way. Agree but karma is seperate from what we might think is right or wrong Edited October 1, 2022 by Goodguy05
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