Author Hellolove Posted October 27, 2022 Author Posted October 27, 2022 11 minutes ago, Weezy1973 said: Interested in what? He’s not interested in you or consider you to be “the one” since he didn’t bring you to his parents.
NuevoYorko Posted October 27, 2022 Posted October 27, 2022 If he's been with you for a year, he's got to be at least somewhat interested. Has there been talk about the future?
Weezy1973 Posted October 27, 2022 Posted October 27, 2022 7 minutes ago, Hellolove said: He’s not interested in you or consider you to be “the one” since he didn’t bring you to his parents. Who knows? Lots of possibilities. Maybe he does think you’re the one, but is embarrassed about his parents and doesn’t want you to run?
basil67 Posted October 27, 2022 Posted October 27, 2022 1 hour ago, Hellolove said: Can I say that crossing the one year mark, if a boyfriend didn’t bring you to his parents or friends, more or less he’s not interested? I agree that there could be a number of reasons: 1. he's not close to his family and doesn't have friends 2. he doesn't see a future with you 3. he's embarrassed of his parents
ExpatInItaly Posted October 27, 2022 Posted October 27, 2022 Are you talking about the same guy from your first post, OP?
Author Hellolove Posted October 27, 2022 Author Posted October 27, 2022 Just now, ExpatInItaly said: Are you talking about the same guy from your first post, OP? Yes. But this is more of a general question. I hope to avoid wasting time on the wrong person in the future. It’s essential to know, with some clarity in the head when something is amiss.
ExpatInItaly Posted October 27, 2022 Posted October 27, 2022 Generally speaking, yes, it's a bad sign if you have never met a guy's friends or any family members after a year. I am sure you already know this though, no?
Author Hellolove Posted October 27, 2022 Author Posted October 27, 2022 2 hours ago, ExpatInItaly said: Generally speaking, yes, it's a bad sign if you have never met a guy's friends or any family members after a year. I am sure you already know this though, no? Actually no.. I just learnt this, a minute ago.
Author Hellolove Posted October 27, 2022 Author Posted October 27, 2022 (edited) Ok I should be cursing him; he used my youthful years on him. Thank you! I wish I would have gotten such advice long time before! Edited October 27, 2022 by Hellolove
stillafool Posted October 27, 2022 Posted October 27, 2022 (edited) ------------------------------------------------------ Edited October 27, 2022 by stillafool
stillafool Posted October 27, 2022 Posted October 27, 2022 2 hours ago, Hellolove said: Ok I should be cursing him; he used my youthful years on him. Who did?
Author Hellolove Posted October 27, 2022 Author Posted October 27, 2022 1 minute ago, stillafool said: No, the parents have nothing to do with it after a certain age. He doesn't need their permission. But if she’s really important to him, he would want people whom are important in his life to know, right? Rather than keeping her under the carpet like some dust?
stillafool Posted October 27, 2022 Posted October 27, 2022 Just now, Hellolove said: But if she’s really important to him, he would want people whom are important in his life to know, right? Rather than keeping her under the carpet like some dust? Yes, she would at least be introduced to his friends. Who are you talking about?
NuevoYorko Posted October 28, 2022 Posted October 28, 2022 16 hours ago, Hellolove said: Ok I should be cursing him; he used my youthful years on him. Thank you! I wish I would have gotten such advice long time before! You had a relationship that did not work out. It's happened to everybody on this site. No need for cursing. 1
Author Hellolove Posted October 28, 2022 Author Posted October 28, 2022 37 minutes ago, NuevoYorko said: You had a relationship that did not work out. It's happened to everybody on this site. No need for cursing. Joking. Anyway glad it’s over.
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