It frustrates me that no men might have sex with me?

[Igoo]

I be in public at Walmart and the grocery store but they never approach me for it st this places.

[Wiseman2]

5 minutes ago, Igoo said:

I be in public at Walmart and the grocery store but they never approach me for it st this places.

That's ok, it's not a good idea to get picked up in stores anyway. What you can do is join groups and club. Volunteer. Takes some classes and courses. That way you could talk to and see people regularly. In general smile, say hi to people, be approachable. In addition, you could get a good profile and pics on some quality dating apps and start talking to and meeting men that way.

[Igoo]

3 hours ago, Wiseman2 said:

That's ok, it's not a good idea to get picked up in stores anyway. What you can do is join groups and club. Volunteer. Takes some classes and courses. That way you could talk to and see people regularly. In general smile, say hi to people, be approachable. In addition, you could get a good profile and pics on some quality dating apps and start talking to and meeting men that way.

But it probably means that I'm not attractive.

[Will am I]

I honestly do not understand what it is that you seek.

You want men to hit on you at Walmart? I guess that some of that could boost your confidence, but I also guess a lot of women would rather not have men hitting on them when they’re grocery shopping. Because it must be so annoying

Healthy relationship forming patterns do not revolve around random pickups in a supermarket. They revolve around taking care of yourself, being in places where you would meet eligible partners, meeting people, aparking eachother’s interest and things developing from there.

As suggested above: hobbies. Sports. Maybe the workplace.

Edited September 11, 2022 by Will am I

[Igoo]

29 minutes ago, Will am I said:

I honestly do not understand what it is that you seek.

You want men to hit on you at Walmart? I guess that some of that could boost your confidence, but I also guess a lot of women would rather not have men hitting on them when they’re grocery shopping. Because it must be so annoying

Healthy relationship forming patterns do not revolve around random pickups in a supermarket. They revolve around taking care of yourself, being in places where you would meet eligible partners, meeting people, aparking eachother’s interest and things developing from there.

As suggested above: hobbies. Sports. Maybe the workplace.

I want them to approach me for sex.

[ShyViolet]

4 minutes ago, Igoo said:

I want them to approach me for sex.

Okay, so you are just looking for  hookups?  If you are on this site, you can go on dating sites or tinder and I'm sure it won't be difficult to find what you are looking for.  People don't usually randomly approach people in Walmart or the grocery store.

[Will am I]

14 minutes ago, Igoo said:

I want them to approach me for sex.

I’m trying to be non judgemental. But… why?

Generalizing, women don’t appreciate to be approached by strangers with sexual intentions.

And for the people that do want these random hookups, I’m sure there’s apps for that. 

Let me assume you don’t wear a name tag that reads you’re up for sex. Probably you don’t go about looking like a sex worker either.

So if men would approach you for sex, they’d approach other shoppers too. I don’t think I would like these manners at all.

[Ami1uwant]

1 hour ago, Igoo said:

But it probably means that I'm not attractive.

In terms of meeting people in Walmart/ supermarkets…I’m a guy….

 

i don’t try to meet people this way but I’m open for it to occurring like having situations create small talk.  If you are the type with routines you might see the same person at another visit and maybe talk again.

 

i don’t hit on women to date at a store.  If it happens thrn I go with the flow.

 

with most supermarkets the shoppers are local area shoppers who live in a few mile radius of the store. Stores Nita’s common in areas like a Whole Foods will draw a wider area group or if it’s near a major shopping area 

 

i don’t do my regular shopping at Walmart/ target….if I go in there I’m there to get a few specific items and leave.  I will usually not be search for dates.  
 

in Walmart if I find a nominee for the “ people of Walmart” site I might stop and take a picture

 

 

[ExpatInItaly]

46 minutes ago, Igoo said:

I want them to approach me for sex.

So join a hook-up app or adult site. 

Not Walmart. 

[Alpacalia]

What makes Walmart so unique?

Is your aim to get kidnapped?

[Lotsgoingon]

You're misunderstanding the way thing go.

Men don't randomly approach women for sex. Now, sure desire for sex isn't far away from men's minds ...

But the way it works is a guy interacts with a woman. Guy likes the woman in some way ... guy flirts with the woman. Woman flirts back ...

And 99 percent of the time, this results in a phone call and then perhaps after the phone call ... a date-meetup ... Guy don't approach workers as much as other people they come across. 

You want an instant hookup. You need to go to a bar for that. Or go online and say you want a hookup, or list yourself in the "want sex" category. You'll get lots of responses and it doesn't really matter how you look. 

Edited September 11, 2022 by Lotsgoingon

[Wiseman2]

2 hours ago, Igoo said:

I want them to approach me for sex.

Tinder is good for that but Walmart is not really like Hollywood Blvd. where men approach women for sex.

[Will am I]

No offence @Igoo, but the whole proposition made in OP seems pretty messed up. You seem to be on the lookout for something equally unrealistic and undesirable.

Is this a genuine cry for help or just a prank post that could use some moderator attention? 

If you are genuine, tell us why you wouldn’t look for better options than random strangers at Walmart?

[Alvi]

If you register on a dating site with a few provocative pics and state that you want a hook up, you'll have an army of guys pick and choose from. Or you don't even need to have any pics, just say that you are looking for sex. You are still are going to be bombarded by messages. Easy. Even if you are only looking for a validation or an ego boost, doing so on a dating site is a lot safer than being picked up by a random stranger at a Walmart.

P.S. I was at the Walmart last evening and let's just say that I am very happy that no guy propositioned me while I was there.

 

[Lola]

1.Download an app.

2. Post that you’re looking for sex.

3 Ask them to meet you at Walmart (if it is a fantasy) 

but in my opinion you’re gonna be sad after that, you will feel used and alone again. Nothing like meeting somebody step by step, making a connection and having sex when it feels right. 

[Will am I]

I asked a moderator to look at this thread. If this is a cry for help, people will gladly offer their insights. But it requires your participation too @OP.  WIthout that I believe we should consider it a troll.

[Igoo]

13 hours ago, Will am I said:

No offence @Igoo, but the whole proposition made in OP seems pretty messed up. You seem to be on the lookout for something equally unrealistic and undesirable.

Is this a genuine cry for help or just a prank post that could use some moderator attention? 

If you are genuine, tell us why you wouldn’t look for better options than random strangers at Walmart?

How is it unrealistic and undesirable?

[Wiseman2]

Just now, Igoo said:

How is it unrealistic and undesirable?

Men who are at Walmart are there to shop. They don't want to be escorted out by the security team because they're walking up to women asking for sex.

[Will am I]

29 minutes ago, Igoo said:

How is it unrealistic and undesirable?

Unrealistic: because prople generally come to Walmart to shop, not to meetup for sex.

Undesireable: because it's not a pleasant idea of women shopping at Walmart would randomly be apprached by men looking for sex.

[Lola]

13 hours ago, Lola said:

1.Download a dating app.

2. Post that you’re looking for sex.

3 Ask them to meet you at Walmart (if it is a fantasy) 

but in my opinion you’re gonna be sad after that, you will feel used and alone again. Nothing like meeting somebody step by step, making a connection and having sex when it feels right. 

 

[poppyfields]

18 hours ago, Will am I said:

If you are genuine, tell us why you wouldn’t look for better options than random strangers at Walmart?

I second this^.  If this is a legit thread, help us out by participating in your own thread in a meaningful way.  

You can start by answering the above question and providing insight into why men hitting you up for sex at Walmart is desirable to you.  

Help us out so we can help you. 

Edited September 12, 2022 by poppyfields

[kleaners]

I'm a guy who likes sex *LOL*, but I'm not about to go to Walmart, or any store for that matter, and just randomly hit on a woman and ask her to have sex with me. I'd likely be escorted out of the store by security after getting smacked in the face.
This post and your responses, it's coming across like you're a hooker standing in front of a Walmart hoping to be propositioned. This is the wrong approach. I agree with other responses, set up profiles on the Tinder and Hinge apps, or sign up for Match or Plenty of Fish. Be sure to indicate you're looking for a friend with benefits. I imagine you'll have better luck.

[Will am I]

24 minutes ago, kleaners said:

I'd likely be escorted out of the store by security after getting smacked in the face.

Yeah, and it can get even worse. You might even be escorted into the back of a police car if the lady in question claims you assaulted her.

@Igoo do you sufficiently realize how socially unacceptable your desire is? 

 

[stillafool]

OP has been here before many times with this issue.  Sorry lgoo or whatever your new name is this time that you still haven't had any luck getting sex.

[mark clemson]

Try dressing down, LOL.