noclobber Posted October 25, 2005 Posted October 25, 2005 to the OP, i can definitely say that those porn movies r having an influence on ur BF. i enjoy seeing porn movies, i think most males do. but i don't think i will enjoy just that one shot that too repeatedly... that's quite disgusting. i can't say whether women like it or not to have it sprayed on their face b'cos i am not female. but the fact that u allowed ur BF to do it on ur face despite u not liking it is going to encourage him to try more stuff. don't be surprised if tomorrow he says "hon do u want a golden shower?" (if u know what i mean).. u seriously got to confront this or leave him..
Lishy Posted October 26, 2005 Posted October 26, 2005 Kick him to the kerb and quick! Ewwww if a guy cum in my face i would wipe it off with my hand and rub it over HIS face He is obviousley very lucky if you allow him to do that but he seems like he doesnt sexually respect women sexually.... get rid if him and get a guy who shows you the love and respect you deserve. I dont think alot of guys would respect a girl who lets them cum on their face (even though most would love it) I believe that most things go in the bedroom in a serious relationship but thats for porn films not loving relationships!
noclobber Posted October 26, 2005 Posted October 26, 2005 Ewwww if a guy cum in my face i would wipe it off with my hand and rub it over HIS face Lishy what if I allow u to shoot ur love juices all over my face
Outcast Posted October 26, 2005 Posted October 26, 2005 I dont think alot of guys would respect a girl who lets them cum on their face Will people ever understand that they personally not liking something does not give them the right to tell others what they should not like? Do you like country music? Well if so IMHO your bf should leave you because I hate it. Duh.
Blackfrost Posted October 26, 2005 Posted October 26, 2005 get your female ejaculation on, and shoot him right back in the face
kitkat826 Posted October 26, 2005 Posted October 26, 2005 The jizz on her and the video girls' bodies is a simple fetish, nothing more or less. Most fetishes involve some type of power trip or dominance. Him liking cum shots, IMO, is really nothing compared to the fact that he seems completely uninteresting and sexually selfish overall. 2) He has never been a very giving lover (i.e. doesn't go down on me unless I ask, I always initiate sex, very little or no foreplay).What's a girl to do? You make a lot of metion about doing things to please him, but are you satisfied with your sex life??
JS17 Posted October 26, 2005 Posted October 26, 2005 ... are you satisfied with your sex life?? I SWEAR, I was walking down to buy a dress for a wedding last year and a homeless man asked me the same question!!!! I don't know if it's funny to other people but I just laughed thinking about it. (the sad part is that I wasn't but I sure as heck wasn't going to discuss it with him )
RecordProducer Posted October 26, 2005 Posted October 26, 2005 To the OP: I think the concerning part is that he is not a very giving lover and you seem sexually incompatible given that you describe yourself as sexually free and adventurous. I don't know if the scene is degrading or not, but I personally wouldn't enjoy it from a selfish lover. I've had sex with maybe 40 women (estimated, plus or minus 5) Alpha, you're practically a virgin!
Author baltimoregirl42 Posted October 26, 2005 Author Posted October 26, 2005 I actually talked to him about it last night. I started off by telling him how much I cared about him and that I wanted both of us to be happy and be able to talk about things. Then I asked about the vids and the images that he seems to find appealing. I told him that I wanted to understand what it was about that particular thing that turned him on. I told him that I wanted to understand so I didn't get the wrong idea (i.e. that it was a dominance thing, a degrading thing, etc). He simply said that guys that get off on degrading women "weren't held enough by their mother, or maybe held too much". And then proceeded to tell me that he didn't think it was normal or healthy to get aroused by degrading women. I then asked him, "well then what is it about it that's a turn on?" and he just told me he had to go and ended the conversation. A few weeks ago after I had a few drinks (and was feeling a little too honest), I was feeling frustrated and fed up with the situation. He asked what was wrong, and I said "It bothers me that you're always too tired to have sex with me or let me 'take care of you', but you have the energy and drive to come home and jerk off every night". He responded by saying, "That's not true". I said, "Yes, it is". And that was the end of the conversation. We went to sleep. Errrr. I need to get out of this relationship, and I know it, but I love the guy. What can I say?
Lishy Posted October 26, 2005 Posted October 26, 2005 well you had better start to love being treated like you are hon! Sorry to be blunt but i dont think he will change - He wont even discuss it!!
alphamale Posted October 26, 2005 Posted October 26, 2005 I dont think alot of guys would respect a girl who lets them cum on their face (even though most would love it) I believe that most things go in the bedroom in a serious relationship but thats for porn films not loving relationships! I don't know LISHY....do women respect men who stick their faces and tongues into womens stinky pussies??? Some of these pussies stink like a tuna cannery, phewwww!!! Please explain what is the difference between me sticking my face between your legs and licking your pussy juice and sticking my tongue into your vagina and you letting me spew my love-juice all over you lips and face?? To me there is little difference
Outcast Posted October 26, 2005 Posted October 26, 2005 The difference, Alpha, is that everything female is perfect, fabulous, and immaculate and everything male is icky and 'disgusting'. Don't you get that?
Lishy Posted October 26, 2005 Posted October 26, 2005 I don't know LISHY....do women respect men who stick their faces and tongues into womens stinky pussies??? Some of these pussies stink like a tuna cannery, phewwww!!! Please explain what is the difference between me sticking my face between your legs and licking your pussy juice and sticking my tongue into your vagina and you letting me spew my love-juice all over you lips and face?? To me there is little difference WHOA!!!!!!!!!!! There is a HUGE difference!!!!!!!!!!! I dont want to get crude but just picture the 2 different scenes! Surely you see the difference????? One is called oral sex - The other is call degradation!!!!!!!!!!!!! Ps - You need to change where you pick your women up from - Stinky ones should be avoided - you need to get a bit fussy!!!!!!
noclobber Posted October 26, 2005 Posted October 26, 2005 The difference, Alpha, is that everything female is perfect, fabulous, and immaculate and everything male is icky and 'disgusting'. Don't you get that? HA HA HA HA!!!!!!!!!!! Well said!! if u don't go down on me u don't love me enough. if u want me to go down on u, u r a selfish, disgusting pig. double standards of women!
Lishy Posted October 26, 2005 Posted October 26, 2005 are we talking about going down on a woman, or are we talking about guys who wanna knock one out on your face?
alphamale Posted October 26, 2005 Posted October 26, 2005 WHOA!!!!!!!!!!! There is a HUGE difference!!!!!!!!!!! I dont want to get crude but just picture the 2 different scenes! Surely you see the difference????? One is called oral sex - The other is call degradation!!!!!!!!!!!!! So what is your pOint LISHY??? SOme men think it is very degrading to stick their faces and tongues in between a woman's legs... you are just sexually closed-minded like 90% of the females out there... Behind closed doors of the bedroom nothing is "degrading" as long as all parties agree to it and don't mind. If you think it is degrading then it will be degrading.
Lishy Posted October 26, 2005 Posted October 26, 2005 So what is your pOint LISHY??? SOme men think it is very degrading to stick their faces and tongues in between a woman's legs... you are just sexually closed-minded like 90% of the females out there... Behind closed doors of the bedroom nothing is "degrading" as long as all parties agree to it and don't mind. If you think it is degrading then it will be degrading. Do they also think its degrading to get their dick sucked? Its like comparing chalk with cheese!! If you cum on my face you may as well piss on my face!! neither would happen with me!
noclobber Posted October 26, 2005 Posted October 26, 2005 If you cum on my face you may as well piss on my face!! neither would happen with me! if i can have a golden shower on my face in addition to the love juices that wud be awesome
Art_Critic Posted October 26, 2005 Posted October 26, 2005 If you cum on my face you may as well piss on my face!! Lishy.. This comes from deep inside your baggage trunk somewhere The 2 are completely different. Why aren't you upset when a guy drops his load inside of you then ? You would be if he pissed inside you.. See.. 2 different things
Lishy Posted October 26, 2005 Posted October 26, 2005 Lishy.. This comes from deep inside your baggage trunk somewhere The 2 are completely different. Why aren't you upset when a guy drops his load inside of you then ? You would be if he pissed inside you.. See.. 2 different things Just as different as comparing oral sex with cumming on a girls face!! Ok this is boring now lol
TUDOR Posted October 26, 2005 Posted October 26, 2005 I agree with Alpha on this one...if I go down on woman and come up with a chin, nose, mouth etc that looks like I just ate a box of glazed donuts due to her juices...what ist he difference in a women getting her chin, nose, mouth etc glazed over with my juices?
Art_Critic Posted October 26, 2005 Posted October 26, 2005 I agree with Alpha on this one...if I go down on woman and come up with a chin, nose, mouth etc that looks like I just ate a box of glazed donuts due to her juices...what ist he difference in a women getting her chin, nose, mouth etc glazed over with my juices? not a damn thing Tudor.. Same difference.. No degrading experiences either
Lishy Posted October 26, 2005 Posted October 26, 2005 I agree with Alpha on this one...if I go down on woman and come up with a chin, nose, mouth etc that looks like I just ate a box of glazed donuts due to her juices...what ist he difference in a women getting her chin, nose, mouth etc glazed over with my juices? Of course you agree!! .... You are a man!
Art_Critic Posted October 26, 2005 Posted October 26, 2005 Of course you agree!! .... You are a man! Lishy.. I don't understand this particular double standard.. You can't have it both ways.. If a guy told you that he was NOT going to go down on you because he will get your juice all over his face.. How would you react ???
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