TUDOR Posted October 25, 2005 Posted October 25, 2005 So, I know this is going to sound harsh, but I am sorry to say that it's probably true: the guy has issues. With intimacy, with women, with sex, whatever. Something is clearly not right here. Am I on the right track? Yes you are but the question is what do you do about it?
Art_Critic Posted October 25, 2005 Posted October 25, 2005 I don't think he will change... I think this part of him is set in already and is this way for life
alphamale Posted October 25, 2005 Posted October 25, 2005 Oh that's not true. LS has had threads on this and plenty of women have no problem at all. My experience in real life situations (not LS) is that few women like semen all over their face and mouths...maybe 10%-20% will do it occasionally but few will say they like it and they usually do it to make their man happy. I mean, come on OUTCAST....a good portions of women don't even like to give blow jobs let alone let a man spew his goo all over their face and nose and eyes and hair and lips.
TUDOR Posted October 25, 2005 Posted October 25, 2005 My experience in real life situations (not LS) is that few women like semen all over their face and mouths...maybe 10%-20% will do it occasionally but few will say they like it and they usually do it to make their man happy. I mean, come on OUTCAST....a good portions of women don't even like to give blow jobs let alone let a man spew his goo all over their face and nose and eyes and hair and lips. I am 29 and have yet to give a woman a facial. Plenty that have swallowed it, spit it but never had one that would let me make a mess of their pretty face with it. Not a big deal to me though.
alphamale Posted October 25, 2005 Posted October 25, 2005 I am 29 and have yet to give a woman a facial. Plenty that have swallowed it, spit it but never had one that would let me make a mess of their pretty face with it. Not a big deal to me though. I've had sex with maybe 40 women (estimated, plus or minus 5) and I think maybe 3 let me give them a facial. So lets do the math: 3/40 = 8%
Art_Critic Posted October 25, 2005 Posted October 25, 2005 3/40 = 8% My experience has me sitting at 15% .. and only 2 women have every let me do it..
Outcast Posted October 25, 2005 Posted October 25, 2005 Originally Posted by alphamale 3/40 = 8% Yeah but you admittedly live in the Land of Trucks and Beer. Try NYC or some other less restrictive environment and you may find a difference in attitudes. As for the OP's guy, I doubt the taste for money shots is his problem. If you two don't get along as well as you like and he won't talk about it, maybe you should get counselling. But try discussing it first.
Author baltimoregirl42 Posted October 25, 2005 Author Posted October 25, 2005 Let me say that I don't necessarily think it's degrading. That's not the issue here. I have no problem doing it for him because I know it excites him. The issue for me is that I don't understand the appeal of it, or why someone would choose to lock himself in the bedroom with the TV and a DVD when his attractive and (VERY) willing and eager girlfriend is offering him the same thing. I have tried talking to him about it and all I get is "I'm tired" or "I'm stressed out". I can understand that, but this is starting to create problems. If it was a toal lack of libido that would be one thing. But when you have a hot woman there, who is very ready and horny as hell (and she tells you so) why not do her instead of your hand and the c*mshot vid?
basscatcher Posted October 25, 2005 Posted October 25, 2005 I personally wouldn't want it all over my face. Neck, chest, back legs, anywhere except my face. I know it makes my skin nice and soft if I let it dry and then wash it off. What a great idea for a substitute mud masque!! :lmao: all that protein. Anti-aging cream? !!
Art_Critic Posted October 25, 2005 Posted October 25, 2005 Yeah but you admittedly live in the Land of Trucks and Beer. This isn't the 1970's..most of the people in Ga are from places like NYC or Detroit..Chicago
Outcast Posted October 25, 2005 Posted October 25, 2005 I know it makes my skin nice and soft if I let it dry and then wash it off. What a great idea for a substitute mud masque!! all that protein. Anti-aging cream? !! Exactly! Didn't you read that people who have sex more often look younger? Did you think it was just the exercise that did that?
TUDOR Posted October 25, 2005 Posted October 25, 2005 Let me say that I don't necessarily think it's degrading. That's not the issue here. I have no problem doing it for him because I know it excites him. The issue for me is that I don't understand the appeal of it, or why someone would choose to lock himself in the bedroom with the TV and a DVD when his attractive and (VERY) willing and eager girlfriend is offering him the same thing. I have tried talking to him about it and all I get is "I'm tired" or "I'm stressed out". I can understand that, but this is starting to create problems. If it was a toal lack of libido that would be one thing. But when you have a hot woman there, who is very ready and horny as hell (and she tells you so) why not do her instead of your hand and the c*mshot vid? I think you should tell him exactly what you just wrote and make him face the music. He can beat around the bush all day about why but if you ask the direct question as you just did you are bound to get an answer. Have you tried that?
Outcast Posted October 25, 2005 Posted October 25, 2005 This isn't the 1970's..most of the people in Ga are from places like NYC or Detroit..Chicago You posted while I was answering Alpha. He claims he lives in redneckland.
alphamale Posted October 25, 2005 Posted October 25, 2005 If you two don't get along as well as you like and he won't talk about it, maybe you should get counselling. OUTCAST....let me refer you to my "Is counseling a panacea?" thread. See the link: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t56352/
Art_Critic Posted October 25, 2005 Posted October 25, 2005 You posted while I was answering Alpha. He claims he lives in redneckland. .. I grew up in Detroit..
basscatcher Posted October 25, 2005 Posted October 25, 2005 Exactly! Didn't you read that people who have sex more often look younger? Did you think it was just the exercise that did that? Must be why everyone thinks I'm 10 to 13 years younger then I am. Except without the facials... Thusfar!!
alphamale Posted October 25, 2005 Posted October 25, 2005 .. I grew up in Detroit.. where abouts A_C? Detroit is not red neck land but it is fairly blue collar. The city of Detroit is in dire straits but the suburbs are pretty good.
Art_Critic Posted October 25, 2005 Posted October 25, 2005 where abouts A_C? Detroit is not red neck land but it is fairly blue collar. The city of Detroit is in dire straits but the suburbs are pretty good. Born in dearborn Hospital and lived in Riverview for about 6 years then St Claire shores/10 mile on the lake for a few more and have family in Bloomfield Hills.
Outcast Posted October 25, 2005 Posted October 25, 2005 OUTCAST....let me refer you to my "Is counseling a panacea?" thread We disagree on almost everything, including that. A good counsellor will help people who can't see past their own mindsets to open their minds and consider different options. I can see why some people might not be receptive to that (reminds AM about a thread recently on intellect and open-mindedness).
RainyDayWoman Posted October 25, 2005 Posted October 25, 2005 A few years ago I had a gf that loved to have me blow all over her face... She also loved to have her hair pulled I did it because she wanted it done:) did i date you....?
Neptune Posted October 25, 2005 Posted October 25, 2005 bg42 The money shot is probably largely a result of the porn industry producing what sells. Obviously enough guys will pay to watch it so it is financially lucrative. However, that does not mean it works well in reality. In other words, few women are comfortable with this. That is not the only shot in porno that is primarily "visual". There is some difference as to what looks good on the screen and what works well in the sack. (or elsewhere)
Neptune Posted October 25, 2005 Posted October 25, 2005 bg42 About your boyfriend.....seems like he has an addiction to porno. And the money shot is just his preference to watch. So, really, what you are dealing with is a partner whose sex drive is distorted by a porn addiction. But it may reflect a problem in the relationship in the manner that he is not comfortable with the intimacy with you.
glittergurl Posted October 25, 2005 Posted October 25, 2005 Geeze what a sad bunch! What on earth is 'degrading' about having sperm on your face or hair? What old-fashioned Puritan values Ewww - that awful horrid stuff THAT MAKES EVERY HUMAN ON EARTH is soooo disgusting that it can only go in that dirty hole the woman has? I'm astonished anyone has sex when you are so consumed with the belief that everything about it is 'dirty' and 'disgusting'!!!! Well Outkast, I suggest you get yourself a male friend to cum on your face and see how ya like it
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