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stillafool Established Member

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15 minutes ago, chicksinacup said:

He also takes pics for me so this is nothing 

Maybe you should go out with him or make him your new FWB.

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55 minutes ago, chicksinacup said:

Ummm i doubt it because i think its just to do with ego

But she isn't feeding his ego, that is your job and the other girls to do.

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3 minutes ago, ExpatInItaly said:

I am quite sure she has. 

The details are all sounding very familiar. 

so do the responses, don't they?

OP--replying to people with "lol" or "lmao" is antagonistic and rude to people who are just trying to help you. Just a general life tip.

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25 minutes ago, chicksinacup said:

Also because thats how he truly is. He cant even be himself around her?

I know but he doesn't want her to know it.  He wants to appear to her as an upstanding human being because that's who she is.  He's pretending to be someone else so he can get her.

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9 minutes ago, stillafool said:

No because she would see that he is eavesdropping and move away.  Only an idiot would do that.

They all know each other omg this is so funny. 3 people standing and 2 mostly talking but the 3rd cant hear or see anything lmaooo

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4 minutes ago, IrinaM said:

so do the responses, don't they?

OP--replying to people with "lol" or "lmao" is antagonistic and rude to people who are just trying to help you. Just a general life tip.

You arent trying to help. You and your gang are trying to imply that my friend cant hear or see anything hence I must be the woman in question. Ridiculous. Hence the lol 😆 

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8 minutes ago, stillafool said:

Maybe you should go out with him or make him your new FWB.

He is gay so cant 

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1 minute ago, chicksinacup said:

He is gay so cant 

Oh too bad you two seem perfect for each other.

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1 minute ago, stillafool said:

Oh too bad you two seem perfect for each other.

Yeah since he even sends me pics taken of my fwb on campus

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10 minutes ago, stillafool said:

I know but he doesn't want her to know it.  He wants to appear to her as an upstanding human being because that's who she is.  He's pretending to be someone else so he can get her.

So he cant even be himself smh

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2 minutes ago, chicksinacup said:

So he cant even be himself smh

Maybe he feels with a girl like her he can stop his sleasy lifestyle and be a better man.  Lots of young men start out having lots of sex with lots of girls until that too gets old and then they want better for their life and find a woman to settle down with.  He probably sees that in her.  Who knows?

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7 minutes ago, chicksinacup said:

Yeah since he even sends me pics taken of my fwb on campus

That's really creepy of him, OP. 

 

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20 minutes ago, stillafool said:

Maybe he feels with a girl like her he can stop his sleasy lifestyle and be a better man.  Lots of young men start out having lots of sex with lots of girls until that too gets old and then they want better for their life and find a woman to settle down with.  He probably sees that in her.  Who knows?

But he clearly does not want to settle down? 

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19 minutes ago, ExpatInItaly said:

That's really creepy of him, OP. 

 

I ask him to do it so he does it. 

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5 minutes ago, chicksinacup said:

I ask him to do it so he does it. 

And it's creepy of you to ask. 

Instead of behaving inappropriately and asking others to do your dirty work, find a new guy to go out with. 

 

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40 minutes ago, chicksinacup said:

But he clearly does not want to settle down? 

You don't know that.  You don't even know what is going on between him and that girl much less what's on his mind.  If you did you wouldn't be here.

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4 minutes ago, stillafool said:

You don't know that.  You don't even know what is going on between him and that girl much less what's on his mind.  If you did you wouldn't be here.

All I know I posted. And im only saying he doesnt want to settle down is because how hes with me and other girls.

 

I am sure if he was serious about her he wouldnt be bathing in hot tubs and lie to her

 

It makes no sense and shows the guy does not want to settle down and is very happy.

 

 

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30 minutes ago, chicksinacup said:

I am sure if he was serious about her he wouldnt be bathing in hot tubs and lie to her

How could he be lying to her about being in a hot tub with you guys when you've said she doesn't like him.  She doesn't care.

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4 minutes ago, stillafool said:

How could he be lying to her about being in a hot tub with you guys when you've said she doesn't like him.  She doesn't care.

I write that he told her everything except this trip.  

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35 minutes ago, chicksinacup said:

All I know I posted. And im only saying he doesnt want to settle down is because how hes with me and other girls.

 

I am sure if he was serious about her he wouldnt be bathing in hot tubs and lie to her

 

It makes no sense and shows the guy does not want to settle down and is very happy.

 

 

Okay so why are you here and why are you asking us questions that you seem to know all the answers to?  

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Okay so why are you here and why are you asking us questions that you seem to know all the answers to?  

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This thread is now closed.  You've all given the OP many thoughtful opinions to consider, however all this back and forth is not productive.  Thank you all for your participation

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What are the odds of this situation ending ? Like I said hes still seeing, calling, texting me and hes not messaging her or doing anything else so what are the chances of this woman getting out of the picture? He doesnt give a damn about her right?

 

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2 hours ago, chicksinacup said:

 

What are the odds of this situation ending ? Like I said hes still seeing, calling, texting me and hes not messaging her or doing anything else so what are the chances of this woman getting out of the picture? He doesnt give a damn about her right?

You have to ask him if he wants FWB or an exclusive relationship

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2 hours ago, chicksinacup said:

 

 

 

What are the odds of this situation ending ? Like I said hes still seeing, calling, texting me and hes not messaging her or doing anything else so what are the chances of this woman getting out of the picture? He doesnt give a damn about her right?

 

If he’s not asking you out on a proper date you’re just a hookup, OP. It doesn’t matter what he thinks of other women or this one even in particular.

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