Author ohjess Posted September 5, 2022 Author Posted September 5, 2022 Thanks everyone. Before I even had to do it, he said to not worry as he thinks there's tension and he was just trying to be 'kind' with asking to see me again. I said messaging last minute is not kind, expecting I'll pull through with plans and wished him well.
Author ohjess Posted September 5, 2022 Author Posted September 5, 2022 2 hours ago, ExpatInItaly said: Why? You gave it to him as a gift. That's on you. Don't give gifts again too early next time. Get to know a man first. The principle of it and the fact that the item is sort of somewhat illegal, well, a grey area where I live. I sent him my bank details.
Author ohjess Posted September 5, 2022 Author Posted September 5, 2022 Also, he didn't even ask me what movie I would like to see, the other night as this is what we had planned. Just chose himself.
Wiseman2 Posted September 5, 2022 Posted September 5, 2022 1 hour ago, ohjess said: The principle of it and the fact that the item is sort of somewhat illegal, . Why are you getting in shady deals with this weirdo? Are you involved in drugs or illegal activity? Is that why you agreed to any of this? You can't ask for a refund for a "gift". Cut your losses. Delete and block him and all his people from ALL your social media and messaging apps.
Author ohjess Posted September 5, 2022 Author Posted September 5, 2022 3 minutes ago, Wiseman2 said: Why are you getting in shady deals with this weirdo? Are you involved in drugs or illegal activity? Is that why you agreed to any of this? You can't ask for a refund for a "gift". Cut your losses. Delete and block him and all his people from ALL your social media and messaging apps. It was just some vaping stuff.
ExpatInItaly Posted September 5, 2022 Posted September 5, 2022 1 hour ago, ohjess said: The principle of it What's the principle of it? You chose to gift a guy you're not really dating. That was short-sighted on your part, not his. It's a bit silly to expect him to pay you back now. Anyway, what's done is done. In the future, don't give gifts to men you don't know very well. 1
Wiseman2 Posted September 5, 2022 Posted September 5, 2022 22 minutes ago, ohjess said: It was just some vaping stuff. Then drop it. There's no point continuing with this guy. Ok you broke even but you can't ask someone to reimburse you for what you called a gift. Why can't you simply delete and block him? 1
basil67 Posted September 6, 2022 Posted September 6, 2022 No matter how we feel about an ex, a gift is a gift and it's appalling manners to ask for them to pay you back.
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