deathangel Posted October 25, 2005 Posted October 25, 2005 Hi Girls, I'm really hoping for some advice here please. Have known this girl for about six months now and right now shes just started seeing someone else (for about a month now). I have liked her for a long time and I kind of get the feeling she knows that too. We do a lot together such as going out for dinner etc. Last week she told me that she doesn't like living with the guy shes with (in a flat with 3 others), and that they dont have much in common. Here is the bit that gets me, last week we went to a friends house party where things were going great until the guy she is seeing walks in and sees us on the couch cuddling up. He says nothing but her friend quickly pulls her away then the guy she is seeing leaves about an hour after. I'm not sure if its serious between the two of them. To be honest, he is a nice guy however shes a girl who likes to go out and have fun wherewas hes pretty boring and doesn't do much. I just don't get why she is telling me negative things about him when we are out together. Another thing is that she is more open when she is out just with me than when we are out with her friends. I was thinking of just telling her I like her and seeing what happens but don't wanna look a fool if she says no. Some of my friends have told me just to tell her and get it off your mind, but others say that things will become awkward if u do. They just say to keep things cool and see what happens rather than try. I really dont know and would really appreciate some advice. Thanks girls
Author deathangel Posted October 25, 2005 Author Posted October 25, 2005 P.S. Some nights shes all over me and other nights she sometimes doesn't spend time with me at all. What do I do?
Deshanga Posted October 25, 2005 Posted October 25, 2005 Hmm, does her nto being interested have anyhtign to do with that toher guy being there? I'd say talk to her. Ask why on earth she is still with that toher guy if they have nothing in common. She'll appreciate you caring about her happiness.
glittergurl Posted October 25, 2005 Posted October 25, 2005 It's not right for her to be all over you when she's in a relationship with someone else. That's what normal people call cheating. It's wrong.
SoSexy Posted October 25, 2005 Posted October 25, 2005 ok, I have been in this situation before. Sad as it sounds, I was the girl. there was this guy that liked me but i was with someone else. When we were alone i would act different than if i was around other people. Like I liked him but not enough to lose what I had. I guess you could call it cheating. He even confronted me about how i acted so i stopeed talking to him because i denied it. I dont talk to him now because my recent boyfriend doesnt want me talking to him but basically what im saying is maybe if her relationship isnt working and she likes you even a little bit then you might have a chance But, if ur good friends then you might mess up ur friendship so make sure you explain that you dont want anything to change if she doesn't feel the same way.
Author deathangel Posted October 26, 2005 Author Posted October 26, 2005 Yes we are good friends and I wouldnt want to ruin that, but I likle her more than that and sometimes just want to tell her, however I have been getting mixed signals and not even some of my friends know what to make of it. Question is do I just tell her anyway?
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