Jade Posted July 22, 1999 Posted July 22, 1999 Hi, here's the problem..... I have been with "Scott" for 4 years, we have a riot together, and are very happy together, except Scott has a problem, he lies... Not about important things, but silly things like buying hockey equipment and then saying he "won" it.... I have caught him on about 5 different occassions lying and each time he denies it till the bitter end or says sorry and it will not happen again! I am fed up with these lies as I believe that there is no longer any trust in our relationship, we have 2 young boys and just bought a house, he is a great Dad but these silly lies are making me crazy!!! We have talked and talked about this problem and I forgive him only to be lied to again... What do you think????
Somebody Who Knows! Posted July 22, 1999 Posted July 22, 1999 If he is really important to you then ask him to seek some help. I have a friend who lies all the time. He did not start out with important stuff but he has now alienated most of his friends. I believe he now spends a lot of time trying to keep friends but he still lies. Ask him to see someone about this!! Hi, here's the problem..... I have been with "Scott" for 4 years, we have a riot together, and are very happy together, except Scott has a problem, he lies... Not about important things, but silly things like buying hockey equipment and then saying he "won" it.... I have caught him on about 5 different occassions lying and each time he denies it till the bitter end or says sorry and it will not happen again! I am fed up with these lies as I believe that there is no longer any trust in our relationship, we have 2 young boys and just bought a house, he is a great Dad but these silly lies are making me crazy!!! We have talked and talked about this problem and I forgive him only to be lied to again... What do you think????
shannon Posted August 12, 1999 Posted August 12, 1999 having a boyfrind that has similar problems myself, i can empathise.... he dosn't lie about anything important, but just stuff that it seems it is unessicary to lie about. but who is to say that it is only that stuff he is lying about? most great relationships are based upon complete trust, and if you cant trust him, or he cant have the caring and respect to tell you the truth, then i am not sure that its a real healthy situation. but, do try to talk to him and tell him that you're not going to take it. you shouldnt have to put up with that.
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