darhma Posted October 25, 2005 Posted October 25, 2005 I met this guy 5 months ago. We ended up spending the day in a raining a cabin together (no shagging)... He calls me once and says he is going to call me in couple weeks... Never calls Run into him again...basicly ignored him....he comes up to me and hugs me...and immediatly asks me for my number....says he lost it... Week later...he has not called....WHY???? and why even bother asking if he does not want to call....By the way we have KILLER connection.
westernxer Posted October 25, 2005 Posted October 25, 2005 He probably doesn't like you as much as you like him. The number thing is just an ego boost. I do this myself... well, I used to.
steve_3327 Posted October 25, 2005 Posted October 25, 2005 whats the best time to ask a girl for her number??
westernxer Posted October 25, 2005 Posted October 25, 2005 whats the best time to ask a girl for her number?? When she talks to you and seems to enjoy doing so (versus you doing all the talking and getting nowhere).
LexiB Posted October 25, 2005 Posted October 25, 2005 In your case it seems like it was just to be nice. I'm sure he prob. realized he was in the dog house with you after not calling you for 5 months and made up that whole "lost your number" bit as an excuse. Honestly it can work both ways though--I admit I've given my number to certain guys who I had no interest in but thought were sweet--with no intention of ever answering the phone if they call:o . Sucks but it happens. Just remember that anyone who really wants to get in contact with you will find a way (sorry if that sounded kinda stalker-ish! ).
Author darhma Posted October 26, 2005 Author Posted October 26, 2005 The only thing is I KNOW he came to me. This is a huge place and the only way he would end up right behind me is to intentionally walk up behind me. You are right though if he wanted to talk to me he would call. Just strange that he would come look for me....ask me for my number when I was totally cool with saying hi...and then tell me how when he saw me it felt like it was just yesterday since he had seen me....and it was then that he realized how long it was. Mind you there was nothing to gain...he said he was leaving and he knew I was leaving last day of the festival...if he was looking to hook up he would of found me the day before. Weird!!!
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