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Afraid to wate my time with my gf if I can't see her for life


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Me and my gf togther for 3 months, more few weeks i going to thailand with friends, alot of parties and girls so i really didn't want to get into relationship but she is really special so gave that a change.

I love her i really do, but i want to be in love with her, that so hard for me to see a future with her right now and i know that i overthink but i don't want to waste her time and mine to.

I always thinking about breaking up with her, we got into a few fights lately and everytime i thinkng about that, that maybe i should end that go to thailand single and ''free'', but none will be wating for me back home that not worth that.

I don't want to think about that, that mean im not in love with her.

I felt so lonely and i afraid to feel that way again, i read alot of posts about cheating and stuff like that and i found somone that i trust completely and i have the fear i will never find somone like her again but that i in love with her.

So my fear is not losing her, i guess that my fear is to not find someone that i will fall in love with.

I want to be with somone that i will afraid to lose but maybe that doesn't exist so i need to be realistic.

But if we will breakup either way sometime so why waste my time and not to enjoy my trip like i planned to ?

TLDR: I have amazing gf, i feels that i love her but not in love with her so maybe i wasting my time, if that truth i don't want to give up my big trip

btw im 24M and she is 22F.

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8 minutes ago, maor123 said:

 i going to thailand with friends, alot of parties and girls so i really didn't want to get into relationship. btw im 24M and she is 22F.

Set both yourselves free if your Thailand trip involves "party girls". It not fair to string anyone along.

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