Alpacalia Posted July 13, 2022 Posted July 13, 2022 (edited) I'm not sure what to make of this. In truth, I do not know how I would feel if someone were to ask me to keep in touch with them more frequently. Maybe you could share a few texts in the morning then talk in the evening. The two of you just need to find your groove. Edited July 13, 2022 by Alpacalia
ExpatInItaly Posted July 14, 2022 Posted July 14, 2022 8 hours ago, Sgthaytham said: When you're in love and in a relationship, you get to see each other more and more. There's no need for texting if you're seeing each other 2, 3, even 4 times a week. It becomes completely unnecessary I don't agree. But, all you can do is see how she feels about that, and if you are able to or event want to offer her the sort of communication she prefers. If not, well, you will know it wasn't a match. 2
Wiseman2 Posted July 14, 2022 Posted July 14, 2022 It's effortless until it's not effortless. That remains to be seen. 2
Author Sgthaytham Posted July 14, 2022 Author Posted July 14, 2022 Her flatmate is a bit of a pain in the arse towards my gf. Why do people think it's ok to flirt with people in a relationship right in front of them??
Author Sgthaytham Posted July 14, 2022 Author Posted July 14, 2022 Aw that's cute, she just told me "You're incredible. You're so conscious about how people feel. Thanks for listening"
ExpatInItaly Posted July 14, 2022 Posted July 14, 2022 6 hours ago, Sgthaytham said: Her flatmate is a bit of a pain in the arse towards my gf. Why do people think it's ok to flirt with people in a relationship right in front of them?? Her flatmate flirts with her? Can you clarify what this is about?
Author Sgthaytham Posted July 14, 2022 Author Posted July 14, 2022 11 minutes ago, ExpatInItaly said: Her flatmate flirts with her? Can you clarify what this is about? Her flatmate flirted with me in front of my GF, and obviously made her feel really uncomfortable. It made me feel real uneasy too.
basil67 Posted July 14, 2022 Posted July 14, 2022 7 hours ago, Sgthaytham said: Aw that's cute, she just told me "You're incredible. You're so conscious about how people feel. Thanks for listening" I'd call that "gushy". Not flirting
Alpacalia Posted July 14, 2022 Posted July 14, 2022 (edited) Is there a reason why your girlfriend's flatmate would say that to you? Maybe she was just being grateful for your help. Edited July 14, 2022 by Alpacalia 1
Author Sgthaytham Posted July 14, 2022 Author Posted July 14, 2022 1 hour ago, basil67 said: I'd call that "gushy". Not flirting That was what my GF said to me this afternoon... 1
Author Sgthaytham Posted July 14, 2022 Author Posted July 14, 2022 1 hour ago, Alpacalia said: Is there a reason why your girlfriend's flatmate would say that to you? Maybe she was just being grateful for your help. That was what my GF said to me this afternoon...
basil67 Posted July 14, 2022 Posted July 14, 2022 (edited) I'm confused. Who told you that you're a great listener? What's going on with the flat mate? Edited July 14, 2022 by basil67
Alpacalia Posted July 14, 2022 Posted July 14, 2022 (edited) 21 minutes ago, Sgthaytham said: That was what my GF said to me this afternoon... Oh, I see. That makes sense. I had the same thought at first glance but wasn't 100% sure. My error. What exactly was the nature of the flirtation from her flatmate, then? Edited July 14, 2022 by Alpacalia
ExpatInItaly Posted July 15, 2022 Posted July 15, 2022 9 hours ago, Sgthaytham said: Her flatmate flirted with me in front of my GF, and obviously made her feel really uncomfortable. It made me feel real uneasy too. Then just ignore the flatmate.
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