New relationship

[janet]

I am in a new relationship about 10days..slept with my boyfriend once ,stayed over.(He lives with his aunt until he gets a place of his own).. seen each a lot but he says he wants to wait before we have sex.Im ready now so do i wait or force him ...

[Ami1uwant]

You slept with him and did what?

 

some want to wait to have sex until they felt ready.  This is more common in the under 23 crowd due to upbringing.

 

try not to have sex at his aunts house.

[Wiseman2]

1 hour ago, janet said:

I am in a new relationship about 10days..slept with my boyfriend once ,stayed over. He lives with his aunt. he wants to wait before we have sex. Im ready now so do i wait or force him ...

Ten days is not a relationship yet. What do you mean by "force him" to have sex? Either he wants to have sex or he wants to wait.

[stillafool]

No don't force him to have sex.  If he wants to wait you'll just have to wait it out.  Do you have your own place?

[smackie9]

Wait til he gets his own place.

[introverted1]

4 hours ago, janet said:

do i wait or force him

Forcing someone to have sex is the definition of rape.

[BaileyB]

4 hours ago, janet said:

I am in a new relationship about 10days..slept with my boyfriend once ,stayed over.(He lives with his aunt until he gets a place of his own).. seen each a lot but he says he wants to wait before we have sex.Im ready now so do i wait or force him ...

Is this a serious question?

Why the rush to have sex? And if you are not having sex, why are you sleeping over with a man that you barely know and his aunt? And, how exactly do you force a man to have sex? Why would you even think to try and do so? 

[Logo]

I don’t think I’d rush to label anything a relationship after 10 days.