Lewis321 Posted July 5, 2022 Posted July 5, 2022 Hi all, haven't posted for a while as I was healing very well and in a good place. So I bumped into my most recent ex gf today, it was school sports day so I knew she would be there. Hadn't seen her properly since the breakup 9 months ago, been sticking to NC. My anxiety is quite high since seeing her and I have gone back to missing her and just feel really sad. Anyone who's read my other posts about her will say that I'm better off without her but right now I just don't feel that way. I still have high attraction for her after seeing her and that is taking over. I was with my parents at the time, she walked past us and said alright to them individually but not me, I said alright to her straight away to just be polite to which she said alright back but she wouldn't have acknowledged me otherwise. Do you think I done the right thing?
glows Posted July 5, 2022 Posted July 5, 2022 Yes, of course. Remain a gentleman as always and carry on. It is ok to feel sad.
Author Lewis321 Posted July 5, 2022 Author Posted July 5, 2022 10 minutes ago, glows said: Yes, of course. Remain a gentleman as always and carry on. It is ok to feel sad. Thanks, I was doing so well I felt I was almost over her and now I just feel the pure sadness like I felt all them months ago.
glows Posted July 5, 2022 Posted July 5, 2022 9 minutes ago, Lewis321 said: Thanks, I was doing so well I felt I was almost over her and now I just feel the pure sadness like I felt all them months ago. It’s ok. Ride out the waves. It comes and goes and one day you’ll be feeling a bit better or it will fade completely. It doesn’t happen overnight unless the person was a real putz. It sounds like you cared for her despite her flaws. 1
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