DJAD Posted July 5, 2022 Posted July 5, 2022 (edited) I've been seeing this girl on and off for a year - she even told me she loved me which made me feel amazing. She hasn't added me on any of her Social Media, or introduced me to any of her friends. I hadn't made a big deal out of this but it does make me very uncomfortable. Recently she told me she was going away with her family on holiday for ten days. During the ten days she barely messaged me and after she returned she had no holiday pictures to show me. Am I overreacting or does this behaviour scream she has a boyfriend / had things to hide? Any advice would be greatly appreciated because she keeps telling me I'm crazy and the problem here not her! Edited July 5, 2022 by DJAD Added a sentence
Wiseman2 Posted July 5, 2022 Posted July 5, 2022 21 minutes ago, DJAD said: I've been seeing this girl on and off for a year - she even told me she loved me which made me feel amazing. Why is is on/off? How long have you been "on" again? Are you eclusive now? Has she met your friends/family yet? Have you send her a friend/follow request on her social media? It seem the on/off nature seems to make you feel like strangers. If you are on/off are you both dating others during the "off" times?
Author DJAD Posted July 5, 2022 Author Posted July 5, 2022 23 minutes ago, Wiseman2 said: Why is is on/off? How long have you been "on" again? Are you eclusive now? Has she met your friends/family yet? Have you send her a friend/follow request on her social media? It seem the on/off nature seems to make you feel like strangers. If you are on/off are you both dating others during the "off" times? Hi, yes for me it's always been exclusive. I guess by on / off I mean we live it different cities so we don't see each other often, one or twice a month. Yes she has met my work colleagues and I'd happily introduce her to my family. With regards to Social Media, I've sent her requests and she has blocked me.
glows Posted July 5, 2022 Posted July 5, 2022 Now why the heck would she block you on social media unless you creep on her profiles or she feels watched or interrogated? She doesn’t send you photos from her vacation or include you in other parts of her life. This is not what an open and loving relationship looks like. In fact it sounds like she dislikes you or some of your behaviours if she has to go to the lengths of blocking you, as opposed to simply not adding you on her accounts.
ExpatInItaly Posted July 6, 2022 Posted July 6, 2022 (edited) 17 hours ago, DJAD said: Am I overreacting or does this behaviour scream she has a boyfriend / had things to hide? Yes, it does. What reason does she give you for keeping you in the shadows of her life? Or does she just always deflect and call you crazy? 17 hours ago, DJAD said: With regards to Social Media, I've sent her requests and she has blocked me Why exactly are you still dating her? Dump her and find someone who is proud to be your girlfriend. Edited July 6, 2022 by ExpatInItaly
CLS63AMG Posted July 8, 2022 Posted July 8, 2022 Is she a different religion? I've been hidden from parents and told "I love you" by one of those. She turned out to be a pathological lying narcissist
smackie9 Posted July 8, 2022 Posted July 8, 2022 You are not Mr. Right, just Mr. Right now when she feels like it. This isn't worth it bud.
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