Emma7897 Posted June 29, 2022 Posted June 29, 2022 So why would a guy keep asking me to hangout even though I declined three times? He talks to me like a friend over text, never flirts? Yet gets mad that I don’t text him first ? Does he want a friendship or does he want more ?
glows Posted June 29, 2022 Posted June 29, 2022 He seems very high maintenance. Do you have a crush on him? Why did you decline hanging out?
stillafool Posted June 29, 2022 Posted June 29, 2022 I can't believe you are still messing with this guy since he won't call you as you requested, asked you out twice but always at the last minute and when you do text him first he takes his own sweet time getting back to you. The question is what are you getting out of talking to this guy? He doesn't even flirt with you. 2
basil67 Posted June 29, 2022 Posted June 29, 2022 Are you talking about this guy? A better question is why you'd text with someone but refuse to meet them. Yes, they should have shut you down when you first refused to meet them, but this is seriously just a time wasting exercise from all concerned. 2
Wiseman2 Posted June 30, 2022 Posted June 30, 2022 11 hours ago, Emma7897 said: I declined three times? Does he want a friendship or does he want more Have you met in person? Is this a dating app? If you are not interested, be kind and state so, then delete and block him. There's no point wasting each other's time.
ExpatInItaly Posted June 30, 2022 Posted June 30, 2022 Why do you keep texting with a guy you keep tuning down? Do you like the attention?
Wiseman2 Posted June 30, 2022 Posted June 30, 2022 12 hours ago, Emma7897 said: gets mad that I don’t text him first ? Does he want a friendship or does he want more ? What is it you would like to see happen? That's the question. Whatever he wants is not worth figuring out if you're not interested. Is this the sane man?: 2
Author Emma7897 Posted June 30, 2022 Author Posted June 30, 2022 Well why does he keep asking me even though I declined the second time ? Yes I would like to go out with him I was just busy
smackie9 Posted June 30, 2022 Posted June 30, 2022 Some people just don't know how to flirt. Maybe he knows you like him, and doesn't believe your actions when you turn him down. Throw the guy a bone and say yes. if he gives you the runaround call him out on it. See what his deal is.
stillafool Posted June 30, 2022 Posted June 30, 2022 1 hour ago, Emma7897 said: Yes I would like to go out with him I was just busy Did you tell him this?
Author Emma7897 Posted June 30, 2022 Author Posted June 30, 2022 1 hour ago, smackie9 said: Some people just don't know how to flirt. Maybe he knows you like him, and doesn't believe your actions when you turn him down. Throw the guy a bone and say yes. if he gives you the runaround call him out on it. See what his deal is. My question is why did he ask to hang out a third time even though I declined two of his offers ??
stillafool Posted June 30, 2022 Posted June 30, 2022 I think Smackie is right, he knows you like him even though you keep turning him down. Maybe you said "no, I'm busy" when he asked the other times so he tries again the 3rd time.
Author Emma7897 Posted June 30, 2022 Author Posted June 30, 2022 3 minutes ago, stillafool said: I think Smackie is right, he knows you like him even though you keep turning him down. Maybe you said "no, I'm busy" when he asked the other times so he tries again the 3rd time. Well then does he like me if he keeps asking ??
stillafool Posted June 30, 2022 Posted June 30, 2022 Just now, Emma7897 said: Well then does he like me if he keeps asking ?? Of course he likes you that is why he keeps asking you out. I hope you give him a chance.
ExpatInItaly Posted June 30, 2022 Posted June 30, 2022 4 hours ago, Emma7897 said: My question is why did he ask to hang out a third time even though I declined two of his offers ?? Because you clearly keep responding to him, so he knows you're interested. He would like to meet you. He is looking for a time that is convenient for you. Why is this a big mystery?
glows Posted June 30, 2022 Posted June 30, 2022 Pardon, you were too busy to date him? Has that changed?
Alpacalia Posted June 30, 2022 Posted June 30, 2022 The reason you declined going out with him seems to be that he asked you on a whim, at the last minute. And he won't talk to you on the phone.
Author Emma7897 Posted June 30, 2022 Author Posted June 30, 2022 9 minutes ago, Alpacalia said: The reason you declined going out with him seems to be that he asked you on a whim, at the last minute. And he won't talk to you on the phone. He asked me 3 times! Each weekend the first time was days before but I was busy, the second time was hours before, I was busy that time to. The last time was a day before I was busy to!
glows Posted June 30, 2022 Posted June 30, 2022 3 minutes ago, Emma7897 said: He asked me 3 times! Each weekend the first time was days before but I was busy, the second time was hours before, I was busy that time to. The last time was a day before I was busy to! You're supposed to offer an alternative time if you're interested.
Alpacalia Posted June 30, 2022 Posted June 30, 2022 Just now, Emma7897 said: He asked me 3 times! Each weekend the first time was days before but I was busy, the second time was hours before, I was busy that time to. The last time was a day before I was busy to! So, then. What the heck, girl? Let him know you'd like to meet him on an alternate day.
Author Emma7897 Posted June 30, 2022 Author Posted June 30, 2022 41 minutes ago, Alpacalia said: So, then. What the heck, girl? Let him know you'd like to meet him on an alternate day. I don’t think he’ll ask me again
stillafool Posted June 30, 2022 Posted June 30, 2022 53 minutes ago, Emma7897 said: He asked me 3 times! Each weekend the first time was days before but I was busy, the second time was hours before, I was busy that time to. The last time was a day before I was busy to! If he asks you again and you've got plans can you drop them for him this time and go out?
stillafool Posted June 30, 2022 Posted June 30, 2022 1 minute ago, Emma7897 said: I don’t think he’ll ask me again How do you feel about contacting him and saying you're free blah, blah, blah and would he like to get together? Even if he's busy he will know you are in fact interested and then the ball will be back in his court and he will ask you out again.
Author Emma7897 Posted June 30, 2022 Author Posted June 30, 2022 10 minutes ago, stillafool said: How do you feel about contacting him and saying you're free blah, blah, blah and would he like to get together? Even if he's busy he will know you are in fact interested and then the ball will be back in his court and he will ask you out again. Idkkk ???? I normally don’t do that ?
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