ExpatInItaly Posted July 25, 2022 Posted July 25, 2022 3 minutes ago, partycity said: No way a guy can fake dis interest He isn't faking it. His disinterest is quite plain at this point. And asking a guy when you will have sex - no. Don't do that again. It comes across as desperate and you don't want that. I would encourage you to read the writing on the wall and drop him. 4
Author partycity Posted July 25, 2022 Author Posted July 25, 2022 (edited) 13 minutes ago, ExpatInItaly said: He isn't faking it. His disinterest is quite plain at this point. And asking a guy when you will have sex - no. Don't do that again. It comes across as desperate and you don't want that. I would encourage you to read the writing on the wall and drop him. We were flirting that’s why I asked. he was asking me a bunch of questions over text about me the other day. So I don’t think he is disinterested I also asked him if there’s someone else he said no just me. Edited July 25, 2022 by partycity
ExpatInItaly Posted July 25, 2022 Posted July 25, 2022 Just now, partycity said: he was asking me a bunch of questions over text about me the other day. So I don’t think he is disinterested Let me put it this way: he's not interested the way you are. He hasn't asked to see you again, right? That is your clue. Interested men are going to find time to see you, or at the very least, set up the next date. You're becoming his tex-buddy, and he already told you he doesn't really want to commit to anything. It's purely casual now. If you're still hoping this will develop, you are going to be disappointed. I'm sorry. 1
Wiseman2 Posted July 25, 2022 Posted July 25, 2022 Why be in his fan club when you could be investing in someone who is clearly interested? You'll be a lot happier when you move forward and invest in someone who is equally interested. 1
introverted1 Posted July 25, 2022 Posted July 25, 2022 6 hours ago, partycity said: But if I ask when we will have sex he says “ we will see” . Even though he really is attracted to me If he was attracted to you, he'd want to have sex with you, particularly since you are willing to let him do so with no strings attached. The fact that he turns down NSA sex tells you everything you need to know, imo. 6 hours ago, partycity said: he was asking me a bunch of questions over text about me the other day. So I don’t think he is disinterested Actions > words. Interested people act interested. 2
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