renil3485 Posted June 20, 2022 Posted June 20, 2022 I met a girl last semester in a club at my university. I believe there’s chemistry between us and have been thinking on asking her out, but I’m not sure if she might like me back. She’s currently abroad in a volunteering program for one month. The other day I sent her a message asking her how was her trip going. She replied after four days (with a lengthy answer, though). I replied the next day with a joke and a comment on something she mentioned, but she didn’t reply back. Last month I also sent her a message one day before her graduation wishing her luck (she was gonna be giving a speech). She waited until her graduation was over to reply to me with a picture of her diploma and saying how happy she was that everything went well. I replied after a couple of hours congratulating her and she replied almost instantly. I thought she wanted to keep talking so I commented on something, but she didn’t reply back. There was one time though that I sent her a meme before going to bed (around midnight) and she replied instantly and we texted until 2am, and even kept texting until the next day (that time I was the one that stopped texting because I knew I was seeing her the next day). I know that I’m not that good at texting and the times she stopped responding maybe there was actually nothing to reply back, but if she were interested wouldn’t she be trying to keep the conversation going? Or am I just overthinking?
Wiseman2 Posted June 20, 2022 Posted June 20, 2022 9 minutes ago, renil3485 said: There was one time though that I sent her a meme before going to bed (around midnight) and she replied instantly and we texted until 2am, and even kept texting until the next day (that time I was the one that stopped texting because I knew I was seeing her the next day). Definitely ask her out when she gets back. Stay on the radar but don't over-text.
Author renil3485 Posted June 20, 2022 Author Posted June 20, 2022 31 minutes ago, Wiseman2 said: Definitely ask her out when she gets back. Stay on the radar but don't over-text. I'm not seeing her in like 3 or maybe 4 more weeks. Would it be appropriate to maybe text her once more within that time period? I was the last one that texted, that's why I'm unsure about it.
Ami1uwant Posted June 20, 2022 Posted June 20, 2022 1 hour ago, renil3485 said: I'm not seeing her in like 3 or maybe 4 more weeks. Would it be appropriate to maybe text her once more within that time period? I was the last one that texted, that's why I'm unsure about it. Just wait till closer to returning to school. Thrn ask like when are you heading back to campus.
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